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Are your dates basically just dinner and a hotel? From a woman’s perspective, wouldn’t you rather not go out together if there’s a significant age gap?

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Most women don’t want to be seen walking around with their papa (a male supporter). I once had a papa in his 60s who I met monthly, and he told me, “All the other women come to my hotel room, take care of business, and leave right away. You’re the only one who stays over and even joins me for coffee the next day.” I think his allowance was quite generous too. I enjoyed talking with someone from that generation, and perhaps he gradually got tired of my body(笑), because we hardly did anything at night anymore. So I didn’t particularly hate staying over with him, but I got the impression that the other girls probably didn’t even want to be seen walking around together. So, I think most women would prefer not to.
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What kind of places do you go out to, for example? ( ˙꒳​˙ )??? Sightseeing sounds fun ♪ I wouldn’t mind it personally, but if it’s someone in their 60s and someone in their 20s, people around you would probably see you that way even if neither of you cared, haha.
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It depends on the woman, how well you’re dressed, and how enjoyable the date is. If she’s bored, she’ll want to leave as soon as possible. If she’s having fun, the time will fly by. Some women also don’t want to be seen by people they know, so they’ll go somewhere far enough away that they don’t have to worry about that. And if going out isn’t enjoyable, they won’t feel like going anywhere in the first place. Exactly—if it isn’t fun, they won’t want to go from place to place. When they feel comfortable, time passes without them noticing, and before they know it, they’ll have lots of places they want to visit.
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It depends on the person you’re meeting. Even in their 40s, some people look like they’re in their 30s, and I think the gap in perceived age can be narrowed depending on your own efforts and the age range you approach. Also, regardless of appearance, if the other person is comfortable with it, I think it’s perfectly fine. That said, as I mentioned, it’s best to be considerate of the other person. Just because you’re giving them an allowance doesn’t mean anything goes.
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People in my age group may enjoy going out on dates, but taking a younger woman all over the place on a date will likely rub her the wrong way, so you’re better off not doing that. She’s only agreeing to an adult relationship (intimate) in exchange for money, after all.
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It depends on the person—and on the papa as well. I’m older, so whether at work or in my private life, I spend time with people across a very wide range of ages. So it doesn’t bother me at all. That said, if you’ve made an offer to a much younger woman, I think it’s best to prioritize her wishes and the overall atmosphere. Akari
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