When I received an offer from the club, there had always been a URL to the gentleman’s profile that I could view, but this time there was no URL—only the club’s comments.
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Does this mean the gentleman hasn’t made his profile public?
If so, why would he choose not to make it public?
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Some people have profiles and others don’t, so I figured those without one were keeping things secret!
But I feel reassured knowing I can at least see their star ratings(^^)(^^)
When I asked someone who hadn’t made theirs public, they said, “That’s nice. So you stepped on a landmine, huh?” lol
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From a woman’s perspective, it’s understandably unsettling to meet a man when you know nothing about him.
Personally, I think things are more likely to develop smoothly if you ease those feelings of anxiety, even just a little, so I believe men should fill out their profiles as well.
There could be various reasons for not making a profile public, but just like women, they probably don’t want their identity exposed.
Still, unless they make their profile photo public, it seems unlikely they’d be recognized…
Incidentally, as Ayase Nana mentioned in her answer, men don’t age on their profiles unless they update it themselves. (I’ve changed mine to reflect my current age range.)
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The men who offered to meet me were all private profiles except for one, but they had a feature that allowed women they’d contacted to view their profiles for one week only.
Sometimes, I also received a brief comment from the staff.
Am I the only one who feels like the men’s ages never seem to change?
You’ll have to ask the men themselves about that.
For the details, try contacting the staff once and asking them directly.
I hope you receive a good offer.
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I assume the man hasn’t made his profile public, but just to be safe, you could ask something like, “Would it be possible to view your profile?”
If the staff simply forgot to attach it, they should send it to you right away. If he intentionally hasn’t made his profile public, the staff will probably contact him and say something like:
“She would like to see your profile. Would you be willing to make it visible for a limited time, just to the woman you made an offer to?”
Some men still don’t create a profile because they find it troublesome, but in most cases, once they realize there’s a feature that lets them show it only to the woman they contacted, they agree.
As for why men choose not to make their profiles public, I imagine it’s because creating one is a hassle, they don’t see the point in receiving messages like “You seem wonderful” since they prefer to find women they like themselves, or they don’t want to be identified.
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Yes, they probably haven’t made it public.
I imagine that’s because they don’t need to—perhaps they don’t want to risk being identified, or they’re able to meet women without even having a profile.
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