Is it normal to take a bath together even in a unit bathroom?
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Today, I went to a city hotel with a papa (a male supporter) I had my first meeting with.
Even though it was a unit bathroom, he started filling the tub and asked me to get in with him.
Honestly, I was confused because this had never happened to me before.
I couldn’t bring myself to refuse, so we got into the tub without washing either of our bodies first...
After soaking in the tub and getting affectionate, when it was time to wash our bodies, he pulled the plug. Since the water hadn’t completely drained yet, we showered and washed each other with body wash at the same time.
We rinsed off the suds with the shower, but because the water still hadn’t drained completely, we ended up washing ourselves while the bathwater mixed with the suds from both of us was still pooled up to around our calves.....
Honestly, it felt really unhygienic and unpleasant, and I had never experienced anything like it before.
The man is in his early 50s. Is it common for papas of that generation, having lived alone in unit bathrooms, to use them this way?
Before we parted, we made plans to meet again, but I don’t want to go through this again next time.
But it seems like soaking in the tub is a must...
At the very least, I’d like to wash our bodies after the bathwater has completely drained, but that takes quite a while. What should I do?
I’ve only ever stayed at city hotels with separate bathrooms and toilets, so I’m not sure.
Is this actually normal?
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I don’t think this is normal, so if it makes you uncomfortable, you probably shouldn’t meet him again.
If your financial circumstances leave you no choice but to accept it, that’s understandable. But if not, I think you should turn him down—even now.
That said, if the allowance is generous, I suppose it comes down to what you want to prioritize.
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When you’re involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), all kinds of unusual and first-time experiences can happen. Even if you check whether something is “normal,” the line defining what you personally can accept won’t change.
Licking someone’s armpits, as in your previous question, isn’t normal either, but I was able to accept it without having to ask anyone. So some of my papas (male supporters) do it too—but of course, not all of them do.
I’ve also encountered people who asked me to lick them after they urinated, without wiping first.
The reason Kazu-san is always so curt with questions like this is that there’s no point asking for general opinions here instead of asking the person involved. You need to ask them directly and really engage with them—that applies to both men and women.
That’s what I want to say not only to you, but to everyone asking these kinds of questions.
Marika
That said, the fact that you assume this must be a man in his 50s simply because he has lived alone in a place with a unit bathroom—and that you think everyone who has lived in a room like that would do the same thing—seems rather short-sighted and lacking in consideration. You should think things through a little more carefully.
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If you’re asking whether it’s common, I don’t think it is. I’ve never experienced that myself.
That papa probably had some unusual ideas about hygiene.
If it bothers you, why not say something like, “This is my first time doing this, but I’m a little uncomfortable with the foam from washing getting on me”? I think it’s important to make sure you’re on the same page about hygiene, too.
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[Incorrect] Don’t bathe together because it’s a unit bathroom.
[Correct] Even if it’s a luxury bathroom, don’t bathe together if your partner doesn’t want to.
What matters most is whether you can both enjoy yourselves, so your papa (a male supporter) isn’t being considerate enough of you.
If it’s hard to tell your papa that you don’t want to, report it to the club.
It’s me.
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Posting repeatedly is annoying.
If you don’t like it, just don’t meet them. That’s all there is to it.
Who cares whether it’s considered normal? Would you gladly go along with it just because it was?
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