I have a papa (a male supporter) I’ve been seeing for quite a while. I’m not sure how much he likes me, but I’m surprised by how much I’ve come to like him.
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Even though I always tell him I like and love him, he won’t believe me. He suspects I’m seeing someone else. I genuinely like him from the bottom of my heart. How can I get him to believe me?
It’s a tough one, isn’t it? (´；ω；｀) Maybe try staying together for the long term, continuing to tell him you like him, while making sure not to come on too strong? (*^^*)
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It’s hard to know exactly when you can conclude that your feelings have gotten through.
I like all the girls I’m seeing, so they can tell I like them when I increase their allowance, rearrange my schedule even when I’m busy (though I can’t really increase the frequency of our meetings that much), or spend more on their gifts. (More precisely, it’s enough if they make me feel that they like me, even if they don’t actually.)
Everyone is different, but judging from your papa’s behavior, he may actually like you and simply be pretending not to trust you.
Besides, if he didn’t like you, I don’t think he would keep meeting you that many times. At least, I wouldn’t.
Also, I think the girls I see are cute and assume they’re naturally popular, so I wouldn’t find it strange if they had a boyfriend or another papa. I don’t exactly suspect them, but I do sometimes make joking comments along those lines.
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“Please be my girlfriend—I don’t need an allowance.”
That might show how serious you are, but it could also get you dumped with a “goodbye.”
If things are going well with your current partner, why not just leave things as they are?
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