I’m K, and I just registered with Univa. (It’s my first time, so I wasn’t sure whether I could use my real name, so I’ll use my initial instead.)

I think you should consult the club staff. We can’t tell from here whether it’s your dating type, appearance, or profile description. About half of all members don’t receive any offers in the first place, so the question is what steps you can take from there. There’s no point worrying too much about how you look in the photos. All the photos are taken by club staff, who aren’t professional photographers, so the quality is basically the same for everyone. The issue may not be the photos, but your appearance itself. If you’re determined to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and aren’t getting any offers here, I recommend also trying papa-katsu apps or other dating clubs.

At Universe Club, you can appeal to male members by adding comments like “You seem wonderful,” so why not make the most of that feature? They may also look at your profile, so I think the only thing you can do is make sure your profile and photos encourage them to reach out to you. I’m with SALON, so I can’t send messages to male members saying things like “You seem wonderful.” I simply have to wait until I’m matched. I feel that if I’m attractive, I should naturally receive some offers, so if no one reaches out, I see it as my own responsibility. There are only 50 male members, so I suppose it can’t be helped if our preferences don’t align… But that’s just an excuse. I believe that truly wonderful women look wonderful to everyone. So if you’re with Universe Club, where you can promote yourself even a little, I think you should make the most of that opportunity! Good luck! I’m sure that even now, people who see this question are searching for “Sapporo, 30s”!

After a while, you may get tagged as having “0 offers.” (It might depend on the branch, though…) I think there are quite a few men who want to make an offer to women with 0 offers, so it’s probably best to wait a little longer.

Since I’m a member, I searched the listings and found a woman who I think might be you, so I’m going to assume that’s the case and offer some unsolicited advice. First, as crude as it may sound, you should clearly communicate your stance—or at least your willingness—regarding whether you’d be open to an adult relationship if you hit it off. Men who register simply because they want to enjoy meals with women are extremely rare. If you’re not in a major metropolitan area, you should realize that this makes your pool of potential matches dramatically smaller from the outset. I know it may be difficult to say outright, and being too direct can be off-putting, but if you wrap it up in too much euphemism, your intentions become unclear and you’ll simply be overlooked. I think it’s better to state your intentions clearly. Also, you seem to have an attractive figure, so it might be a good idea to post a photo that shows your figure more clearly. But aren’t you exaggerating your bust size a little too much? Many men like slender women, so you shouldn’t be shy about showing yourself. A questionable E-cup can make men hesitant to approach you. If you’re worried, ask the staff for their candid impression. Especially if you’re short and supposedly an E-cup, it can look as though arms and legs are attached to a chest, which might actually make a man feel embarrassed to be seen with you. A C-cup is plenty, and B or smaller can be attractive in a different way. You should also post a photo showing a lovely expression. Not one that appeals to women, but one that makes a man think, “It would be amazing to see her make that face on a date—I’d really like to see it in person.” I think a natural, carefree smile is best. If you’re going for the personality-focused appeal, this is where I think you should make your strongest impression. The situation doesn’t matter. It’s all about your expression, including your mannerisms. When I look at newly registered profiles at a club, I check them in this order: profile, photos, then video. For women I may have overlooked, I look for an updated profile photo or comment on the top page, then check the club profile, photos, and video again. It should be obvious where you can make changes yourself. Best of luck. Taro

I think the best way is to post identifiable hints here so you stand out.

If you’re listed as Dating Type A, you’ll hardly receive any offers. That said, please don’t misrepresent your dating type. If you change it, I feel you should only do so if you’re genuinely willing to go to a hotel with a man you click with. If you’re not Type A and still aren’t receiving offers, your appearance may be playing a bigger role, so I think it’s best to wait patiently.

Changing your comment repeatedly can make it look bad when your profile keeps moving back to the top, so if you do change it, wait at least two weeks between updates. Your comment isn’t essential anyway, so it’s fine to remove it. If you haven’t received any offers, it might be better to delete both the comment and your schedule. The same goes for private photos—wait at least 10 days to two weeks before uploading new ones. As for your dating area, make it as wide-ranging as possible. Other than that, you may have no choice but to discuss it with the staff and ask them to move you down a class—assuming that’s possible.