When choosing your wife, did you prioritize beauty or intelligence?
As an aside, don’t you feel that society is increasingly fawning over people based on their looks?
What do you think?
Obviously, both（笑）
In papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think it’s only natural that attractive people get showered with attention.
That doesn’t necessarily mean they’re happy, though. Some may get carried away by all the attention, only to regret it later when they get older and stop receiving that kind of attention.
Since ancient times, attractive people have been popular and fawned over, while standards of beauty have changed with the times. I think that’s just how things are.
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Maybe it’s charm? Even after getting married, couples are bound to argue from time to time... So I think someone kind and good at being affectionate—someone who knows how to make up properly—would be nice (* 'ᵕ' )☆
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Wouldn’t someone beautiful and intelligent be ideal?
Beyond looks and intelligence, it also comes down to how much you’re willing to compromise. That applies to both men and women.
—Marika
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Both.
They’re equally important to me, and when it comes to a long-term relationship, I can’t really rank one above the other.
I’m not looking to switch partners constantly, so I suppose I expect both from the girls I’m seeing through the club as well.
Also, people fawning over looks is nothing new, so I don’t particularly feel that society has only recently become this way.
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① Whether you share the same interests
② Whether she’s more beautiful or cute—just your type in general
③ Whether you enjoy spending time together
I thought she was great and married her, but I ended up disliking the marriage and getting divorced after just six months.
Once you live together, you start seeing all sorts of things. I’d rather stay single and enjoy life for the rest of my life.
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I was probably looking for both, too.
But if I had to choose, I care more about what’s on the inside.
I only flatter women based on their looks when I’m going to sleep with them.
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I wanted both from my wife.
But reality is tough, and things didn’t quite work out that way, haha.
Compliments about your looks only last until you start dating. Once you’re actually in a relationship, I think it’s what’s inside that matters.
Isn’t that true now just as it was in the past?
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