I believe questions about going rates have come up many times before.
Even for the same woman, the allowance can vary depending on the man, and even the same man will generally offer different allowances to different women.
For example, if she were a famous female celebrity who appeared on TV, some men would probably be willing to pay even if the allowance were 100,000 yen per meeting.
Even if she isn’t that famous, a man may still be willing to pay a high amount if he feels he wouldn’t be able to maintain a long-term arrangement with her otherwise.
So asking about the going rate here probably won’t be very helpful. When you’re on a date with a man, you may need to gauge his financial situation and aim for an amount slightly higher than what you think he might be comfortable with.
Another approach might be to decide from the start that your allowance is 80,000 or 100,000 yen, and politely part ways with men who offer less.
That said, I know this can be quite difficult. If you’re willing to compromise somewhat and accept the amount the other person is comfortable offering while looking for a good match, a relationship with a good man may offer you something beyond money.
On the other hand, it may be best to avoid men who offer a low allowance and don’t have much else to offer. Ultimately, what you choose to prioritize is up to you.
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To answer frankly, using Dai’s answer as a reference:
- Adult entertainment: 0.7–7
- Dating apps: 1.5–3
- Universe: 1–10.20?
In reality, it varies greatly from person to person, so it’s best to leave it up to your partner（笑）
By the way, I based the going rates for Universe on the answers posted in the Q&A section.
In short, it’s almost as if there’s no standard rate（笑）
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I’m not really sure what you mean by calling that a probing question.
To answer more frankly, I feel that the going rates you see online are ultimately set by comparison with the sex industry.
An upscale soapland worker probably earns around ¥30,000–¥50,000 for two hours.
On the other hand, women working for delivery-based services may choose their clients, but some will go all the way for around ¥10,000–¥20,000 an hour.
Back when dating sites were popular, terms like “betsu-ni” and “ichigo” were commonly used.
If you’re thinking of an adult relationship (intimate) purely in terms of money, then it’s basically no different from the sex industry. So perhaps you should consider those rates and decide your own price accordingly.
I believe that activities through a club are fundamentally different from the sex industry, so I don’t vary the allowance based on the woman.
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I think that if you’re attractive, cheerful, and can communicate politely, you should be able to receive at least around ¥50,000–¥100,000. That said, it really depends—not only on your looks, but also on which dating club you register with, how well you click with the interviewer, which can affect your ranking, and your compatibility with the men you meet.
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It’s more like getting some spending money from someone you enjoyed being in a relationship with.
That seems like the right way to look at it—it’s not the adult entertainment industry, after all.
If you haven’t negotiated an allowance or made any kind of contract, it’s basically the same as with a girlfriend, daughter, or wife: money or gifts are a sign of affection. There’s nothing strange about accepting them, or saying that you’d like to receive something in return.
I don’t like it when women focus too much on the amount of the allowance. If you just want to make money, you can go into that world.
The whole point of a dating club is that, without having to enter that world, you can have a relatively easy, enjoyable time, feel good, make memories, and feel fulfilled in so many ways.
Even listing it on adult entertainment job sites is meant to offer people a helping hand—to show that, if they’re going to choose one, this may be a better option for some. It may look similar, but it’s fundamentally different. It’s not the same.
I really wish people understood that distinction.
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Yes, exactly.
What do you think the going rate is for an allowance in an adult relationship (intimate)?
Sometimes it’s sea urchin, too. Apparently, there are even crocodile people.
Personally, though, my favorite is battera.
Taro
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There have probably been plenty of similar questions in the past, so you might want to take a look.
There’s really no fixed going rate. As long as both parties are happy with the terms, any amount can work.
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There’s no such thing as a standard going rate.
You haven’t even looked into it properly, so I think you should start over.
Whether that means redoing your question, your papa-katsu, or your life is for you to decide.
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