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Apr 8, 2022 18:56
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Even after he ejaculates, he keeps going without a break, using his fingers and so on, and once he recovers, he starts penetration again. Even when I try to leave, he follows me and pulls me back. He says he wants more time together, even every day, but I’m at my physical limit and feel like I’m going to die.
Somehow, I always seem to end up meeting people like this. If possible, I don’t want to have to say that it hurts. Please tell me what I should do.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You should speak up when something hurts.
The reason more men are bad at it is because women don’t say anything.
If you tell him it hurts, a gentleman will think about how to avoid hurting you.
I think that’s where you should start.
Other
Oh, I’m jealous.
I’d almost like you to introduce me to him.
That said, truly insatiable men are pretty rare.
Marika
P.S.
But if he’s forcing himself on her even though she doesn’t want it, that’s rape. And if she’s enduring it despite not wanting to, is it only because she’s being paid? That seems a little messed up.
I wouldn’t recommend continuing a relationship that’s so painful, but if you still want to continue, I suppose the only option is to minimize penetration by using your hands or mouth and bringing him to climax several times.
If you can’t even put up with that, I don’t think you can continue. I doubt telling that man to hold back would get through to him.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Are they all like that?
Maybe the reason so many serial papas end up coming to you is that other women got fed up with them and broke things off, while you’re willing to give them multiple chances.
It sounds exhausting—you should try saying no.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s not just painful—it feels like breaking up is the only option.
If you don’t truly love someone, there’s no way you can put up with that. And you probably couldn’t fall for someone who’s too stupid to show that kind of consideration anyway.
I mainly associate “post-nut clarity” with men, but I understand what it means.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Wouldn’t it be okay to say something like:
“I’m at my physical limit and feel like I’m going to die, so please keep it to two times max.” (Or whatever number you feel comfortable with.)
Other
I’m basically the female equivalent of a guy with an insatiable sex drive, but I’ve never counted. Still, after coming 10 or 20 times, my legs gradually start trembling, and then the post-orgasm “sage mode” suddenly kicks in.
Once it does, I’m no longer really in the mood.
I’ve had people tell me they wanted to make me squirt and pressure me into it, but I just don’t squirt. Coming and squirting are two different things…
I can’t bring myself to say that it hurts either, but apparently they can tell when my reactions start to fade.
When they ask, “What’s wrong? Are you getting tired?” I honestly say, “Yeah. You were really intense, and I came way too many times,” and most of them understand.
P.S.
People still call it “sage mode,” right? Is that term outdated?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m jealous… three or four times in a row with no break… I’ve never been able to do that, so I can’t really say.
But that must mean you’re incredibly attractive and exciting to the person asking the question.
Maybe the only option is for you to climax over and over again first, until your whole body is trembling and you’re completely dazed and unable to move… so your partner won’t feel like making you do anything—or doing anything themselves—and then sleep soundly for an hour or two without moving.