I previously asked about “having my allowance evaluated.” Do you remember me? I’d like to share the outcome in a Q&A format.

To cut to the chase, I feel like it’s actually a viable approach. It’s difficult with men who decide on an absolute allowance amount from the beginning, though that’s something I have to pick up on myself. When someone asks, “How does ○ sound?” while watching my reaction, even if I want a little more, I feel it leaves a better impression to say, “I’d like you to evaluate me,” rather than simply quoting an amount higher than what they offered. That said, this only works when the other person is really into you, of course. You need to think it through carefully. So, in that situation, I tried saying, “If, after we become intimate, you decide there won’t be a next time, the ○ amount is fine.” The “○ amount” was the amount he had offered me. As a result, I received an allowance with a substantial increase. We’ve continued seeing each other since then. It was also nice having that sense of tension. He said to me: “You must be really confident in yourself, haha. I’ve never met a girl who said something like that before. But it’s pretty interesting, and I’m into it.” And after the hotel, he said thoughtfully, “Now I understand what you meant by having me evaluate you.” I replied while cuddled up in his arms, “I just didn’t want you to decide the price before you’d tried me♡” I’m confident in my figure, I’m attentive, I’m fine with receiving messages every day, I’m the type who wants daily contact, and I’m suited to taking good care of someone, so it worked out well in the end. From a man’s perspective, would this be a no-go…? I feel that a relationship with a constant sense of tension can be one option too. Just to be clear… I treat both the men who evaluate me and the men who simply make an offer with the same care and importance. I’ve come to realize that the most important thing is continuing the relationship. As always, thank you to everyone who gives such thoughtful answers.