Tips Apr 6, 2022 20:38

Is it acceptable for club staff and a registered male member to have a one-on-one meal?

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This is based on what the papa told me, so I can't be sure it's true, but apparently he has one-on-one drinks with a staff member and hears behind-the-scenes information about the club. The papa tells me information he learned there that would probably make the women involved uncomfortable. He also seems to be casually sharing my private information with the staff. I'm going to end things with a papa like that. But is this kind of thing generally considered normal at dating clubs?
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First of all, there’s an official service called the concierge service. It’s a service for men in the Black Class, where they can sit down one-on-one with a staff member over tea or drinks and exchange all kinds of information. That said, we basically don’t discuss women’s personal information. Even if asked, the answer would be that we can’t provide it, so I think the men generally don’t press the matter any further. I seem to remember that, in the past, there was a staff member who talked far too freely and was subject to disciplinary action. (“Disciplinary action” can mean various things, of course.) Since then—or rather, even before then—it seems that staff members stopped talking about such things. But if there are still any staff members sharing that kind of information, please use the Contact section below to let Maezawa know which staff member it is. The concierge service is basically over tea, but sometimes it involves a meal, and there are also occasions when a meal takes place outside the concierge service. In any case, we make sure not to discuss women’s personal information. And when it comes to men who have meals with staff—since it’s usually just tea—they’re gentlemen, so they wouldn’t ask about women’s personal information in the first place. I feel like they must be talking about something completely different. In any event, men who say they’re close enough to the company president to go drinking with him, or that they’re close with the staff, probably aren’t all that impressive. Normally, you wouldn’t tell a woman things like that, and there’s really no need to.
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It’s not unusual to meet one-on-one with a staff member for a specific reason. I’ve done it several times myself. There are people everywhere who go on and on claiming to reveal “the industry’s secrets.” They’re almost certainly lying. Anyone who genuinely knows the inside story keeps their mouth shut and would never talk about it. I think the questioner’s papa is a classic example of that. “Confidentiality” is the most important rule at a dating club, whether you’re an employee or a member. Even if your papa is telling staff about your private life, I doubt that information would go any further. If anything, I think he’s probably being flagged as “a person to avoid” or a candidate for forced removal from the club. If a staff member leaked a member’s private information outside the club, they’d be fired immediately. Universe is that committed to compliance. And please make sure to report him to the club, saying clearly that you’re uncomfortable with this kind of papa. He’s probably doing the same thing to other women, too. Let’s stop this before anyone else gets hurt ^^; It’s me, Mii
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