Tips Apr 6, 2022 14:18

Could you tell me about adult relationships?

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I’ve only met one person so far. He was a C-type, and things progressed to an adult relationship at our first meeting. After that, I assumed we would have an adult relationship either every time we went on a date or about once every few dates, but ever since the first meeting, he has turned me down during dinner, saying he doesn’t want to do it that day—even though I always get his agreement beforehand. Is this normal? Are there people who continue with dinner only, even if they’re C-types? I suppose it’s entirely possible that we simply weren’t physically compatible, though... I can’t help wondering whether he went along with it the first time because of the rating system, so he could avoid lowering his rating by accommodating me as much as possible.
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That’s unbelievable. Once things have progressed to an adult relationship (intimate), I’d expect it to happen every time for a Type C arrangement. If you meet several times a week, it would probably be close to once a week. The only explanation I can think of is that the intimate time lasted a long time and she had trouble reaching the end… Also, if you treat her to an enjoyable meal, she’ll probably start wanting it too. So whether it’s an adult relationship (intimate) or just dinner, you may need to change your mindset and learn to take pleasure in entertaining her and making sure she has a good time.
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I’m a Type C. If the first meeting goes well, we click, and it develops into an adult relationship (intimate), I’d normally assume we’d continue seeing each other with intimacy involved… Actually, if we weren’t compatible physically, I wouldn’t go out for dinner a second time. (If you have any sense of responsibility, you usually wouldn’t want to let a man down…) If you’re looking for an adult relationship (intimate), I think your options are to ask, “Can we do it today?” before making a booking, or try approaching another woman. (´・ ・`)
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I don’t think that’s normal. I’ve never experienced anything like that. As Maezawa-san suggested, you might want to reflect on your own behavior—or, as Seattle-san suggested, move on to the next person.
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I suspect something may have gone wrong during your first meeting. Maybe you didn’t take a shower, or you did but didn’t wash that area. I’ve actually received feedback like this, saying that was what they disliked. Maybe the adult relationship (intimate) wasn’t what she expected, or the allowance was lower than she wanted. For example, if you became intimate on the first day without discussing the terms beforehand and then handed her an amount you decided on afterward, she may have felt that she would never have agreed to it for that allowance. Not using protection can also be one reason a woman decides to refuse. I don’t know exactly what happened, but I think there must have been some kind of problem. It is a little strange that she still comes out for dinner, though. While she is still willing to meet you, why not start by asking whether she was unhappy with the allowance for the adult relationship (intimate)? That may be easier to bring up. By the way, women do not agree to the first meeting just to receive a rating. The club clearly explains that they are not required to agree, so their rating will not go down if they refuse.
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From then on, it’s normal for an adult relationship (intimate) to happen about three out of every four dates. If you’re both happy just spending time together without it, there’s nothing wrong with continuing that indefinitely. In this case, though, since you’re not satisfied, it’s time to end things. If you’ve already met more than four times, continuing to see him doesn’t make sense. You should probably look for other offers.
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