Sometimes, after an offer has been made and the date and time decided, a woman may change her relationship type before the actual day. Since I’m basically fine with not having an adult relationship on the first date, the type itself isn’t an issue, but I sometimes wonder whether she changed it after viewing my profile following the offer.
Of course, I made the offer after viewing her profile, including the relationship type she was looking for, so it does leave me feeling a little unsettled. I understand that women may have various reasons for changing it, but I feel that if the terms are changed after the offer is confirmed, there should at least be some kind of notification.
What do the male and female members think?
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Depending on how the terms change, I might not be happy about it. But I prefer women I genuinely click with, so if it’s changed somewhere between A and C, I wouldn’t really think much of it.
I’ve never made an offer to someone in category A, but I’m also fine if an adult relationship (intimate) doesn’t happen from the very first meeting. Even when the final category is B, things can still develop into an adult relationship from the first meeting, so honestly, I don’t think there’s much difference in those fluctuations in between.
That said, if it changes to D, it somehow feels different. I’d probably still meet her if it was after the initial introduction, but there’s a good chance I wouldn’t see her again after that.
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Let’s first remind ourselves that women aren’t products. I don’t mean that in a negative way. The Universe site displays girls’ profiles like products on Amazon, and with a simple click, you can make an offer and—at least in your imagination—even become intimate with them. It’s better to get rid of the bias that comes from viewing things that way.
Women may change something, even if it’s not their dating type—uploading a new profile photo, updating their comments or schedule, or having their rating change. We can’t know whether she reconsidered something herself or whether meeting another man prompted it. I do think it’s fair to say that something happened.
It’s also unreasonable to expect the club to control all of this. Universe allows women to change information at their own discretion that the club would normally have complete control over and provide to male members. That’s important because it gives us a chance to learn about a woman’s true feelings and personality, but it goes beyond what the club can manage.
In the end, you can take in all the information, but I think your impression when you actually meet is what matters most. After making an offer, male members should take the time before meeting to build a meaningful connection, and hopefully turn that into the energy for a good encounter with the woman and whatever follows.
Taro
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After making an offer, that’s what you’re looking at? Haha.
If you’re checking a woman’s profile, shouldn’t it be to prepare for the date? Make a list of places she wants to go, reserve a restaurant she’d enjoy, think of things to talk about that day, and so on.
I think women check a man’s profile so they can properly entertain him and avoid being rude to the man who made the offer.
Aren’t you being a little self-conscious? LOL
It’s me.
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If she changed it, it’s probably because she had a bad experience on a date with the man she met right before you—not because she looked at your profile.
There’s only so much you can tell from a man’s profile, so I doubt that alone would make her change it.
Marika
> Isn’t the questioner being a little too self-conscious? LOL
I think so too.
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If I were to change my type, I’d probably discuss it with the staff first, think it over carefully, and then make the change.
If I’d already received an offer from a man, I’d also ask whether it would be okay to proceed.
Perhaps something happened before the questioner’s offer that made her think, “C is scary…” (crying). I can kind of understand getting scared at the last minute now (>_<)
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The woman herself hasn’t changed, so I don’t think you need to worry just because her profile details have changed.
For example, even if her rating had changed from C to B and you invited her on the first day without noticing, she’d probably remember changing it herself, so in most cases she wouldn’t be offended.
And if she did get angry, I’d say it’s actually useful to find out early on that she’s a difficult person.
If it had changed from C to A, I’d think she was being honest. (Haha)
I always check the profile again right before meeting up, so if I saw that it had changed to A, I’d probably set the transportation allowance at ¥5,000 for the time being and ask her what had happened.
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In the past, staff were automatically notified whenever a woman changed her relationship type. I believe they would then ask her why, and if there was already an offer, ask the man whether he wanted to cancel it.
However, just because a woman changed her relationship type, that’s only the situation on paper. Even if she’s type D, she still has the right to turn someone down.
So perhaps they decided that contacting them was pointless because it ultimately made little difference to how the woman actually felt—or maybe they simply stopped contacting people and left things as they were.
That said, if you made an offer to a type C woman and she then changed to type A, I think it would be reasonable for the man to request a cancellation. The staff would probably understand that reason.
But if she only changed from C to B, I think any man who has made offers to some extent would understand that it’s not a huge difference.
So, if she changes to A, request a cancellation. Otherwise, don’t worry about it, and pretend you don’t know she changed her type. Just invite her as though she still had the relationship type she had when you made the offer.
In the end, if the woman feels that this man is okay, she’ll probably accept. And if she wasn’t B from the start, I feel it should be fine to invite her to an adult relationship (intimate) from the very first date.
Even if she says, “But I’m type B…”
you could just say something like:
“Sorry, I hadn’t checked your profile after making the offer, so I didn’t notice.”
I think that would be perfectly fine.
Reading it carefully, though, it sounds like you’re simply making a request and asking for opinions at the end.
You should tell the branch office about your request. Nothing will improve just because you post it here（笑）
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Why worry about something like that?
It can be important and troubling for women, or something they don’t fully understand, so there’s nothing wrong with taking it in the best possible way.
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