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Apr 3, 2022 20:23
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Age: 60s
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For example, even yelling “Give me my money back!” can potentially be a crime depending on how an ordinary person goes about it, whereas when a lawyer says “Give me my money back,” it may carry legal force—that’s how I understand it.
If the other party has hired a lawyer, I think it would be best for you to respond through a lawyer as well.
In any case, this is a different playing field, and as a layperson, I don’t think ordinary people are in a position to judge it.
You’re asking in the wrong place.
Age: Private
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I agree with Maezawa’s answer.
If the contact is from a lawyer, I don’t think there’s any harm in ignoring it. I would probably ignore it myself.
However, if you ignore contact from the court and fail to appear, you could lose the case. So if you receive anything from the court, take it to a lawyer for advice.
Other
As mentioned in the previous answer, some lawyers may try to force the issue. If that happens, you could either find a lawyer yourself or reply, “I’m currently consulting a lawyer who was referred to me by another papa (male supporter). Could you give me a little time?” and see how they respond.
If they still refuse to back down, feel free to ask for advice here again.
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I don’t think there’s any problem with ignoring contact from the lawyer.
If dealing with it feels like too much trouble, you could also refuse delivery so you don’t have to see what’s inside.
However, ignoring contact from the court could put you at a disadvantage, so I recommend responding to it properly rather than ignoring it.
The concern is that if he knows your address, there’s a possibility he may harass you, so it might be safer to consider moving as well.
Although some men will investigate and track you down even after you move… >＜
Other
Wouldn’t it be enough to attach the LINE messages you saved in your notes and say that you were willing to meet?
It seems to me that men have more to lose and pay a greater price.
In your reply to him, you could write something like, “I really wanted to meet you. It’s a shame.” A small-minded man like this might even go back on what he said and come crawling back.
—Akari