I think the basic approach is to read the mood and move forward only if the other person seems comfortable.
But judging by the way you asked this, you sound like the type who might say:
“It said in your profile that things are okay after the second meeting too, so of course you’ll do it, right?
Come on, come on, come on!”
So, to the person asking: no—anything beyond the first time is off-limits. No second meeting or later.
Once more than a year has passed and you’ve learned how the relationship works, you can think about what to do then.
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It depends on the person.
Fuu is in favor of going for a second round. The key points are to discuss it beforehand and get her consent, keep the time within four hours, and never force it—if you push too hard, it may lead to saying goodbye.
If you absolutely want to go multiple rounds, as the other respondents have said, offer additional allowance. Or, as I’ve also written about in my column, date a woman who enjoys sex, or make plenty of offers and be direct. If you find a woman who likes you—and your package—you may be able to go multiple rounds.
There aren’t many women who are okay with multiple rounds, but if you make enough offers, you’ll eventually meet one.
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Men wouldn’t like it either if a woman they weren’t that close to suddenly said, “Could you increase my allowance by 10,000 yen?” Even if she asked very politely. It’s the same thing.
Only switch to twice a month once you’ve become quite close and she asks you to.
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If she’s a woman from a dating club, I think it’s better to keep it to one meeting.
Even if you like her, there’s a chance you won’t get another opportunity.
If she invites you, though, feel free to do as much as you like.
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I’m back~! There aren’t really any set rules, so I think it depends on the person you’re seeing! Compatibility matters too (*^^*) It also depends on how much time you have ✩.*˚
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As Kazu and Marika said, it depends on the person, but I think it’s better to keep it to just one time.
Basically, I only do one-off meetings, and I rarely meet someone multiple times. If it does become a repeat arrangement, I ask for an additional allowance.
Also, my allowance is higher than what’s generally considered the going rate to begin with.
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