What time do you usually go to sleep when staying over with a girl?
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Whenever I stay over with a girl I've been seeing for about four years, we always end up going to bed at around 4 a.m. It's the same whether we're at her place or traveling. It's not like we're being affectionate the whole time, and if we don't have anything planned the next day, sometimes we go for another round after waking up. But we're both satisfied after one intense intimate encounter, so our pillow talk tends to go on for a long time. We see each other four or five days a week and email and call each other every day, so it's strange that we never seem to run out of things to talk about. Afterward, we just keep talking and before we know it, we've fallen asleep. If one of us has work or plans the next day, we're both exhausted from the lack of sleep, so we talk about breaking this routine and going to bed earlier—but we always end up going to sleep at the same time.
What time do you usually go to sleep when staying over? And what can we do to break this routine and get to bed earlier?
Drink plenty of alcohol, get into bed, and pass out as soon as it’s over. You should be able to fall asleep right away… as long as the girl can drink alcohol…
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Thanks for sharing the details of your date. It’s great to hear that you two are getting along so well!
But this is actually a question, right? LOL
We don’t have a set bedtime when we stay overnight. If we’re just going our separate ways the next morning, we stay up late because we want to talk and cuddle as much as possible. If we’re going somewhere early the next morning, we go to bed a little earlier.
You’ve talked about “stopping the routine,” but if nothing changes, I think one of these may be the reason:
1) She hasn’t really understood what you mean.
2) The reason you’re going to bed late is actually coming from your side—she may be unhappy about it too.
3) Neither of you really sees it as a problem even when you don’t get enough sleep, so nothing changes.
Please have a proper conversation with her.
The biggest shame would be for the relationship to fall apart because you both keep feeling frustrated about wanting to go to bed earlier.
Sleep needs vary greatly from person to person, so it’s important to be willing to accommodate each other. But by discussing it properly sooner rather than later, I think you’ll be able to keep the relationship going for even longer.
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I’m glad to hear you seem happy.
I usually go to bed around midnight or 1 a.m. I think it’s fine for you to go to sleep first. You could even pretend to be asleep. If that still wakes you up, I suppose you’ll just have to accept it.
Even if you’re tired from lack of sleep, it doesn’t seem to have caused any problems so far, so I think it’s fine to leave things as they are.
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