What’s the difference between women a man only wants to be intimate with once and women he wants to keep seeing?
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I love intimacy and pleasure. I face my partners with my instincts fully engaged.
Since pleasure feels stronger when things are unrestrained, my inability to control myself is a concern.
Apparently, most people want to be intimate with me at least once. Men are incredibly enthusiastic beforehand, and some come back for more, but it’s never quite the same as at first.
I’d also like to use the women here as a reference: how do you let yourselves be embraced, captivate men, and get them to keep seeing you?
I can kind of understand how the men being dated feel.
When someone comes on extremely sexual from the start, I might think, “Oh, wow,” in the moment, but that’s where the excitement ends. Once I’ve already seen her sexy side, there’s no more sense of discovery.
It seems best when she’s shy at first, then gradually becomes more sensual and responsive over time...
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Things may be different for younger women and those in their 40s or older, but speaking from my own experience…
Looks-wise, I’m often seen in a sensual, curvy way, so I suppose I fall into the category of “I’d like to sleep with her once,” as you put it.
But once they do, apparently they find it hard to stay away, so the rate of ongoing arrangements is very high.
I think another reason they continue is the contrast between my profession and title and how I am during intimacy, as well as the wide range of things I can talk about outside of intimacy—my hobbies, interests, and so on. I never run out of things to discuss with older gentlemen.
It was hard to put this into words because it all felt rather vague, but when I saw Aya describe herself as refined and demure, I thought, “I’m nothing like that,” and used it as a starting point.
I think there are probably many different factors.
Marika
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A Refined, Wholesome Appearance
Unless she’s an exceptionally beautiful actress or model, I think an ordinary girl needs to have a refined, wholesome image to land a generous (well-paying) papa who’ll stick around. By that, I mean looking clean and well-groomed. No papa wants a deep, long-term relationship with some ordinary, bitchy girl.
On top of that, it’s important to have something about you that draws your papa in. If you become the kind of unconventional woman he finds “interesting,” the arrangement is sure to last.
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Women I’d like to continue seeing:
Women who have several qualities that make me want to keep seeing them even if sex were completely off the table.
Women it ended with after one or two dates:
If, while planning a date, I couldn’t really imagine any enjoyment or value beyond sex, it usually ended after two dates. They were lovely women, but my resources—money, time, and so on—are limited, so I only continue seeing the ones I truly want to keep seeing.
It’s me.
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Is there something that makes them think, “Once was enough—I’m not seeing her again”?
Like, when they come to their senses and think, “She probably does it raw with anyone. That’s scary.”
Oh, and I really think you should avoid doing it raw! (>_<)
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If someone wants to be with you at least once, I assume you have a certain amount of appeal—maybe you wear revealing clothes, have a large bust, or have a curvy, sexy butt.
If your only appeal is your body and intimacy, though, they probably won’t want to continue. After doing it once, they may feel that’s enough.
Other possibilities could be that you have an odor, are too loose, turn out to have less of a bust than expected once you undress, or have a soft, childlike body shape.
You say you can’t control yourself, but if the woman is selfish and only pursues her own pleasure while not caring at all about the man’s, that’s another situation where things probably won’t continue.
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If a man meets you once and has a moment where he feels put off, it’ll probably be difficult to continue the arrangement…
Also, having unprotected sex is basically like committing suicide, so please be careful.
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I'm sorry, but I would never want to be intimate even once with a woman who can't control her desires and has unprotected sex with anyone.
Also, unless a woman has some appeal beyond intimacy, I feel like it would end up being a one-time relationship.
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