Do you mean that’s how it turned out when you met him?
If you’re judging him based solely on the offer, I think you may have gotten the wrong impression.
Also, I don’t think the staff are forcing anything. They may make recommendations, but even then, I doubt a man would make an offer if he wasn’t interested in her.
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Hmm, I don’t think they’d push someone on you, since they should prioritize the male members’ preferences…
That said, I do think it’s possible they might recommend someone who gets better feedback from men over someone who gets poor feedback.
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If he was strongly encouraged to make the offer, it could develop into an adult relationship (intimate) if he likes you.
But if he meets you and thinks, “Actually, this isn’t right,” he probably won’t take things any further.
If the gentleman tells you that the staff recommended you, then he must have thought, “I might as well meet her.” So go meet him with your head held high. If you’re thinking, “Someone like me…” it’ll show on your face. If you look unhappy, you’ll attract bad luck（笑）. Meet him confidently so he doesn’t think he can take advantage of you.
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I’ve never experienced the staff really pushing someone on me. But there have been times when they recommended someone, and I found it hard to say no—especially when I was the one who brought it up and they encouraged me to go ahead.
On a separate note, I can lose interest a little when there’s a long gap between receiving an offer and actually meeting.
Sometimes I’ll find someone promising among the new registrations afterward and make an offer, and then I look forward to that meeting more, making the first one feel like I’m just going through the motions.
Or I’ll make an offer because things with an existing partner weren’t going that well, only for us to start getting along better afterward…
Sorry for being so selfish.
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The staff probably won’t pressure you too hard, but if they recommend someone, you might feel bad saying no and end up making an offer anyway.
And honestly, it’s only human for staff to want to recommend women who they know will definitely receive an offer.
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I’ve never pressured anyone into accepting an offer, but I do sometimes make an offer out of consideration for the staff member’s feelings.
If there are staff members who pressure people so hard that they can’t say no, I’d love to meet one.
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