Tips Apr 1, 2022 22:54

I’ve only been registered for about a month and am still a beginner.

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I’ve received several offers, and every time things have progressed from a date to going to a hotel, but honestly, I haven’t met a single person with what I’d consider normal preferences. They’re gentlemanly until we get to the hotel, but the moment we arrive, it’s as if their true nature (perhaps?) comes out and they become completely different. So far, I’ve been asked things like whether they could lick my eyeballs, pull out my fingernails, cut my hair, hit me, or have their way with me on the street. There have also been times when I told them, “I’ll give the money back, so please let me go home now,” but they wouldn’t let me leave the room. It was extremely frightening. (That time, I made up various excuses and managed to get home safely.) Everyone I’ve met has changed so drastically that I’m scared I can’t tell what kind of person they are until we get to the hotel. Since every person I’ve met so far has been like this, I’ve started wondering whether this club only has people with such extreme preferences. Also, my understanding is that the club considers anything that happens inside a hotel to be a private matter between the people involved and doesn’t interfere, so I haven’t been able to report any of this to the club. In a situation like this, is it still okay to report it, even if it concerns a private matter? If everyone is going to be like this, it’s far too frightening, so I’m also considering leaving the club. I’d appreciate hearing everyone’s honest opinions, for better or worse.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
If it constitutes a crime, the club will also get involved. > There have been times when I told him, “I’ll give the money back, so please let me leave now,” but he still wouldn’t let me leave the room. This could potentially constitute unlawful confinement. “Unlawful confinement” means depriving someone of their freedom of movement by making it impossible or extremely difficult for them to leave a certain area. It must continue to a degree that can be considered an infringement on the individual’s freedom of movement. Apparently, unlawful confinement does not require physically blocking someone’s escape by locking them inside a building, room, car, and so on. Even if escape would otherwise be easy, it can also apply when violence, threats, or similar conduct makes it extremely difficult to leave a particular place. As for the other points, they’re phrased as requests or desires—“I’d like you to do ___”—so it’s up to the individual to ask, and since that isn’t against the law, the club can’t get involved. However, if they continue persistently even after being refused, it could potentially amount to coercion, so I’d like you to report it to the club. That said, the club hardly ever receives reports like this. (There was a report in the past about a man slapping someone, and I seem to remember that he was banned from the club.) So I honestly wonder why someone like that would make an offer to you in the first place. Could it be that your profile comments say something like you’re interested in kinky things or that you like BDSM?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Please report this to the club. The club can’t get directly involved, but actions like ripping out someone’s nails or hitting them are criminal offenses, so they should be able to investigate, issue a warning, and possibly terminate his membership. Was this just one person by chance? Are you sure there were really multiple men? Contact the club right away and ask them to terminate the memberships of such dangerous male members.
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t have a direct example, and it’s different from Joe’s particular preferences, but it’s the kind of unusual fetish that probably does exist. That said, I don’t think that makes it acceptable. Of course, I think it would be perfectly reasonable to report it to the club. You could then decide whether to leave based on how they handle the situation. The fact that you received offers involving such an uncommon preference several times within a month may mean there’s something in your Universe profile or in the way you’ve worded your posts that attracts them. It might also be worth asking the staff to look into it.
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Isn’t someone like that practically a criminal?! (°_°) It’s scary to think you might be held against your will, so call the hotel right away and get out of the room!
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I’ve met and talked with a lot of women, but I’d say only about one in ten has had a story about a pervert. I’ve never heard anyone say they were frightened by such violent behavior. Is this really true??
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I’ve never encountered anyone that perverted—or who seemed like a criminal. Did you consult the staff about it? If you’re reading this Q&A, I assume you’ve at least spoken to the staff. Are you really a member of Universe Club? If you are, please report the names of all the dangerous people you’ve encountered, the dates of the offers, and what they said to you via LINE. I’m sure the staff here wouldn’t simply say they didn’t know what to do, even if you told them something like that. Your rating of those people should be low as well, and I’m sure they’ll do what they can to prevent anyone else from becoming a victim. Or do you look meek and like you’ll accept anything people say? If so, you need to firmly refuse them, in a police-officer-like manner, based on the vibe you get from them. Maybe you’re unintentionally attracting that kind of person.
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Judging from your question, it sounds like you’ve had about five people like that in a row. That’s not normal. I sometimes hear women at dating clubs talk about the perverted men they’ve met in the past, but not that many. There may be something in your profile text or photos that attracts offers from those kinds of men. If anything, I think it would be better to identify what that is first and make some improvements. Taro
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Is that really true? It sounds so unbelievable that I can hardly believe it. I’m not trying to take the club’s side, but unless this is harassment from someone else, you must be someone who really attracts that kind of person.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s just another prank post from the usual person, right?
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“I want you to let me lick your eyeballs, tear off your fingernails, cut your hair, hit you, have sex with you on the street,” and so on. I’ve never heard of anything like that—not at Universe, any other dating club, or even outside the clubs!! Does your profile or mistress questionnaire (papa-katsu survey) say that you’re extremely into BDSM, or do the staff comments mention that you seem to have a submissive side?! That’s really beyond anything normal. Talk to the staff and ask them to check whether anything like that was written in your comments. That’s way too scary. Marika
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You’ve been through something really frightening. Are you okay? I’m just glad you made it home safely. Seriously… I’ve never encountered anyone like that, but that sounds terrifying. Even if it was a free-choice relationship, if you felt things went way too far, why not report it to the club? There may be other people who have been victimized by him too. Licking someone’s eyeball… absolutely not. Threatening to rip out your nails and saying he wanted to hit you—that’s basically violence, isn’t it? Cutting your hair… what was he even thinking? And raping someone in the street—that’s a crime… For now, I’d suggest not going to a hotel on the first meeting. Maybe meet for dinner only (no intimacy) and get a feel for him first, then decide what to do from the second meeting onward.
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