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Mar 31, 2022 23:11
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Other
“Sorry if this is a bit rude, but how much do you usually charge for an arrangement?” Why not ask her directly? ⸜(*ˊᗜˋ*)⸝
Other
If you’re good at establishing a comfortable rapport, offering a generous allowance shouldn’t suddenly give her a bad impression.
If it does, the issue is likely not the high allowance itself, but the man’s attitude.
As long as you continue to treat her like a gentleman, I don’t think you have much to worry about.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t vary the allowance based on the woman, so I see everyone on the same terms: ¥50,000 per meeting.
With that approach, I’ve been able to date women who are even well-known in the entertainment industry without any problems.
When discussing the allowance with a woman who seems likely to have high expectations, I tell her upfront, before asking what she wants: “I offer ¥50,000 per meeting to everyone.”
If she feels that amount isn’t enough and walks away, so be it. But if she’s willing to decide based on chemistry, things can develop into a relationship—even if she sees other men for a higher allowance.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Maybe around 50,000 to 100,000 yen?
If he’s a handsome guy like Taro, the amount would be lower.
Other
You should start by stating your own asking price. Based on my experience, ¥40,000–¥70,000 is reasonable. Some people do come in with outrageous demands, but if they like you, they may be willing to compromise—even if they say things like, “I usually ask for ¥100,000 or more,” or “I’ve had generous (well-paying) papas in the past.” Since they have the ability to earn more if they want to, they tend to be flexible. So if you’re confident you can connect on a personal level, I think it’s best to state your preferred terms first. If you’re worried, adding something like, “But what matters most is how you feel,” may keep the door open even if there’s a big gap.
You should handle these situations with the utmost care. If she says something like, “I usually get ¥X,” you should sincerely apologize and show your gratitude, saying, “I’m sorry, and thank you so much.” And if she says, “I’m releasing a DVD soon,” even if it’s just a suggestive glamour DVD, don’t make fun of her—react with genuine enthusiasm and say, “That’s amazing!”
The fact that a woman whose usual rate is high is willing to accept lower terms probably means she’s looking for something beyond a financial relationship. I think it’s very important to genuinely fall for her and treat her like a princess—not just act like the kind of girlfriend you want, but fully play the ideal man from her perspective.
Joining the allowance bidding war is easy in its own way. But if you have what it takes to win her over through chemistry, I hope you’ll face her honestly instead of hiding behind money and give it a real shot.
Taro
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Even for the same woman, the allowance can vary tenfold depending on the man.
In other words, it could be anywhere from 50,000 to 500,000 yen—that really depends on you, I’d say.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Allowance rates are down these days, so even a popular top-tier girl would probably be fine with 10. If you’re attractive, she might even accept 8.
That said, if she already has a generous (well-paying) papa, I think she’d turn down even 15.
One of my monthly partners is an incredibly beautiful woman who works in entertainment. Since I give her 20 per meeting, she said she’d turn down anything under 15 unless the guy was a handsome older man.
Other
If he’s a clean, gentlemanly man who’s good at getting on the same wavelength, I’d definitely continue seeing him for at least ¥80,000 per meeting.
I feel these are very realistic numbers, to be honest.
*Edit: I answered with a woman at the level of a TV-ready celebrity in mind. I don’t know what the going rate is for truly in-demand celebrities.*
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
Are you fully aware of why models and celebrities receive such high allowances?
For a talent, their brand is everything. If it were discovered that they were registered with a dating club, unfortunately, it could damage that brand. The high allowance is compensation for taking that risk.
When it comes to attractiveness as women, I don’t think there’s actually as much difference between celebrities and ordinary women as people imagine. Their scarcity—there simply aren’t many of them—is another reason their rates are high.
Also, even if they hit it off with someone, I don’t think these women would meet a man they see as a risk. What do you think about men like you, whose sole objective is “celebrities and models”?
Honestly, the fact that you’re asking such an insensitive question already makes you seem like nothing but a risk to me. It’s not as though you can meet them simply by offering more money.
At Universe Club, I believe well-known celebrities and models are registered secretly. Rather than emphasizing how much allowance you’re willing to pay, show the staff that you’re trustworthy and can keep things confidential.
Finally, to answer your question: as you said, ask the women themselves.
It’s Me
Other
With that 90% success rate for finding the right vibe, just figure out the perfect amount, lol. I honestly realized I wasn’t successful enough to be giving someone like that advice.
Other
If she’s model- or celebrity-level—but isn’t actually a model or celebrity—wouldn’t an allowance around the same as for an ordinary woman be fine?!
I have this vague impression that models and actresses command exceptionally high allowances, but I can understand that someone genuinely famous would require an allowance to match her status.
I think any amount is fine as long as the woman is satisfied with it. I’m not sure whether she’ll tell you the truth, but you could ask her directly how much she usually receives.
Whether you offer the same amount or more is up to you.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think the best thing to do is ask them directly.