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Mar 31, 2022 17:01
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Other
I’d be happy to be asked two or even three times, but are you making your adult relationship all about your own satisfaction—being too rough or forceful, for example?
As a general rule, you need to be very gentle. Younger women may start to dislike it otherwise.
If you do things straight out of an adult video, you should expect her to dislike it.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think you should date a woman who’s okay with doing it twice.
If your current partner seems reluctant, pressuring her could lead to a breakup. If you don’t want to lose her, why not ask whether she’d be willing to do it twice for an additional allowance?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re going about it the wrong way.
Instead, focus on discovering how to feel satisfied:
- in just one encounter,
- in as little time as possible,
- and as quickly as possible.
That’s what club dating is about.
You’re so wonderful, and it feels so good that I lose myself too quickly. Both men and women in club relationships express their pleasure to their partners.
Trying to drag things out or get your money’s worth is the worst.
Other
That’s selfish.
Other
I’m back! (^_^)
Is it okay if I’m being honest here~?
Honestly, if it’s twice, I’d like the allowance to be a little more generous, please!
Women have that post-intimacy cooldown too… /////♡
Once is enough to satisfy me (*^^*)
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you increase the allowance enough, anything goes.
Yesterday, I had an adult date with one of my monthly arrangement partners. Over the course of two hours, he asked me twice to let him finish inside, and I felt I had no choice but to agree. Then, during pillow talk, he asked me to marry him.
I mean, I assume it’s because I give him such a generous allowance.
For the record, I’m totally a condom person... Until I get my test results back, I’m only doing dinner dates with my other monthly arrangement partners and will be taking more shifts at a men’s esthetics salon.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Since he seems dissatisfied, I get the feeling he may be rather self-centered. Why not ask him in exchange for increasing your allowance?
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re young...
I can only manage one round every three days—and even that’s becoming questionable lately.
This isn’t a soapland, so the standard is one round. Unless the woman specifically requests it, multiple rounds cost extra.
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Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
I tried putting a PJ’s inner thoughts into words.
> “We currently go on one adult date a month.”
Is there really no value in dating me beyond the adult relationship?
> “If I’m feeling up to it, there’s a part of me that wants to do it twice while I still can…”
You’re only thinking about what works for you, aren’t you?
Don’t you care about how I’m feeling physically or emotionally?
At least create the kind of mood and atmosphere that makes me want to do it twice, too.
Otherwise, I’ll refuse even the first time.
If you don’t change that, I’m ending things.
> “The allowance is pay-per-meeting.”
You keep talking about the allowance—do you think money means anything goes?
> “Am I being selfish?”
Don’t ask the question box something like that!
Look me straight in the eyes.
Pay closer attention to my actions.
That’s the only place you’ll find the answer!
Questioner, you’re doing a good job picking up on the PJ’s feelings from her expressions when you say, “Sometimes she looks like she thinks twice is too much.”
If you take proper care of the PJ’s feelings in addition to providing the allowance, there may still be hope.
It’s me.
Other
I think it’s best not to do it a second time unless she says she wants to.
If you really want to go twice, try giving her a little extra allowance. She’ll probably be happy to do it twice next time.
Other
I think you should either make arrangements so that one time is enough, or add an extra payment when meeting twice.
Marika