No matter what anyone says, I offer a flat 30,000 yen allowance regardless of her class—is there a problem with that?
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In the first place, I don’t see any value beyond that in women who can be won over with money.
I’m sure there are plenty of male members who share the same values. Besides, this isn’t an upscale club, so both the women and men vary widely in quality.
Since there seem to be some popular respondents making an effort to raise the going rate for allowances, I decided to take the opposite stance. I look forward to being piled on, as you respondents are so fond of doing.
Sorry, I completely agree that the allowance is low—I’m in the same boat. But could you stop casually adding “Taro” after the numbers?
That’s my name, after all（笑）
Taro
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I don’t think there’s a problem. Some people offer ¥30,000 as well.
Back when I used to visit adult entertainment venues, I could enjoy intimacy for free aside from what I paid the venue… so effectively, it was ¥20,000, with ¥10,000 going back to the woman.
But I feel like I’ve gotten tired of that kind of thing now.
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I’m not going to dismiss your way of thinking—it’s your choice.
Women who are attractive and have great personalities tend to have a lot of competing papas, so a “three-taro” papa probably won’t stand a chance.
As a three-taro papa, try making lots of offers to women who seem to receive fewer offers, and help those female members who are still happy to be with you.
Best of luck going against the grain. I’ll look forward to reading about your results in a column.
All the best.
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If you think about it normally, even 30,000 yen is a lot in an equal relationship between a man and a woman.
Even with the most beautiful woman, if the relationship is truly equal, money shouldn’t be necessary in the first place.
Both men and women benefit from using money, but how much they value that benefit differs from person to person.
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As long as both people are happy with the arrangement, enjoying themselves, and dating without stress, it’s really nobody else’s business—so do what you like!
As a woman, I’d certainly be happier with a higher allowance, though. I’m sure there must be something more to you that makes it worth it for the person asking.
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I believe the allowance should be whatever works for both people.
Whether it’s 30,000 yen, 40,000 yen, or 10,000 yen, if both sides agree, I don’t think it really matters.
For the record, I usually offer 5,000 yen, but that’s because I see the activity itself as being worth only that much—not because I think women are worth less.
Even if someone like Satomi Ishihara came along, she’d probably turn me down if I told her I could only offer 5,000 yen. It’s not that I don’t have the money; I just don’t see the activity itself as being worth any more.
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At a men’s esthe, with ¥30,000, you can get a super-popular “black-tier” girl from Universe to do this and that for you♡
If you put in the effort, you might even take things as far as dating♪
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If it’s working for you, I don’t see a problem.
I’m not sure why you thought people would pile on you, but sorry we couldn’t oblige and gang up on you（笑).
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