Tips Mar 28, 2022 23:27

I want to die every day.

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Can I never be happy as long as I’m in a dating club?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
No one can make you happy. Happiness comes from how your own heart feels. You won’t become happy just because you did something, or because someone did something for you. Being in an escort club, quitting one, being wealthy, or being poor— none of these things will make you happy.
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Everyone has their own definition of happiness. What does happiness mean to you? Also, if you keep chasing the happiness you think you’re supposed to have—or an idealized version of it—you’ll only make yourself more unhappy. It’s better not to dwell on those things. Once you’ve had an experience where you thought you might die from an illness or accident, you’ll feel that simply being alive is happiness. Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) has nothing to do with it.
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Living each day thinking, “I want to die,” may be one way of living, too. If you ever lose the will to live, please remember Vanya’s words.
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If you feel you have to be intimate with men you dislike through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), quit right now. I like watching horror channels on YouTube, and apparently spirits who died by jumping continue jumping over and over again even after death. It would be awful if that sadness and pain didn’t disappear after death, wouldn’t it? So if something feels painful now, just stop doing it. If you’re worried about making ends meet, apply for welfare.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
A dating club is a means to an end, not the goal itself. I think you should make good use of the allowance you receive there in ways that bring you happiness. Happiness ultimately comes down to your own mindset. If you look at everything negatively, you probably won’t be happy.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
If it’s not for you, I think you’re better off stopping. For now, I also think you should stop using the Q&A site.
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Your reason for wanting to die probably isn’t the dating club, is it? Please prioritize addressing the deeper, underlying issues first.
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If you quickly start thinking that way whenever you’re feeling emotionally vulnerable, you shouldn’t get involved with desire-driven places like dating clubs. Quit right now.
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