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Mar 28, 2022 12:57
8 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Some dating apps apparently offer 1.0 as well
(and it seems some women are willing to accept that),
so she may have been active on one of those dating apps.
As I’ve written several times, if all women agreed not to accept anything below, say, 5, then no one would offer less than that.
(They’d be rejected 100% of the time.)
Solidarity among women is important, but in reality, that doesn’t seem possible.
Other
Please tell the gentleman, “You mean transportation expenses, right?”
Did you really agree to it on that basis?
It sounds like a polite way of turning you down, but whether you accept or decline is up to you.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I made ¥30,000 at the men’s esthetic salon today.
Other
As others have said, you won’t know unless you ask. However, I think that’s probably the amount he’s offering rather than an excuse to turn you down, so ultimately, the decision is yours.
Other
Did he say that when you met? ( ˙꒳˙ )???
If you’re not okay with 1, just turn it down. But if you feel like, “I’d be okay with 1 from this person,” then I think it’s fine to accept (* 'ᵕ' )☆
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Maybe he always proposes an allowance of 10,000 yen for an adult relationship (intimate), or maybe it’s just an excuse to turn you down.
Either way, does it really matter?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You won’t know what they really mean unless you ask them directly.
Other
That’s probably the amount he’s offering, not an excuse to turn you down.
For now, why not ask, “Is that just the transportation fee?”
Whether you agree to an adult relationship (intimate) for 10,000 yen is entirely up to you. You can decline or accept as you see fit, but personally, I’d turn him down with a sarcastic, “I thought that was just the transportation fee.”