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Mar 27, 2022 12:23
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I don’t understand why you agreed to have dinner with that person in the first place.
It seems like you could simply decline to continue seeing them.
In any case, wanting to cancel on the day is extremely rude to the other person.
Please don’t make plans to meet them in the first place.
Other
Everyone answered when I asked the other day, so make sure you turn them down properly.
Marika
Other
Since you’ve already agreed to meet for a second time in this situation, I feel like the only option left is to say that your period started.
As Osaka-san said, you could always cancel at the last minute as a last resort, but that would probably only put things off. I think it might be best to meet and be honest with him.
He also seems likely to show up with pretty high expectations, so it sounds like it’ll be difficult.
Other
I’m back~! I feel like I just saw a similar question the other day…
Is this a follow-up? ( ˙꒳˙ )???
If you don’t plan on having an adult relationship going forward, I think it would’ve been better to let him know in advance…
He’s making time for you too, after all (>_<)
Maybe your period suddenly came or something?
Is he cute because he looks like a bear?
Other
How should I turn him down today—or rather, I’ll be turning him down going forward too, right?! Shouldn’t I just clearly tell him that I can’t have an adult relationship (intimate)?
Other
What if I cancel at the last minute?
Normally, last-minute cancellations are the worst, so I don’t recommend them. But if you really don’t want to meet someone, it’s sad for them too, and if the relationship isn’t likely to continue, it may be better to end it sooner rather than later.
That said, canceling at the last minute is rude. From now on, try not to make plans with people you don’t actually want to meet, so you won’t end up canceling.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you don’t want an adult relationship (intimate) with him, you’d be better off declining a second meeting in the first place.
If you want an allowance for dinner but don’t want to be intimate with him, all you can do is tell him honestly—but I imagine your arrangement will end there.