I’m 60 and a member of a certain dating club, though I’m also interested in Universe. I’m currently seeing two women in their early 30s, and I’ve been with each of them for about two or three years. Actually, I’ve always tended to take a long time to finish, but since the beginning of this year, I’ve reached the point where I can no longer climax after penetration. So, reluctantly, both women take off the condom and finish me with their hands. It certainly feels good when I climax, but sometimes I end up feeling a little pathetic.
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So, my question is this: If there are any men who have experienced something similar, what do you do? And for the women, from a woman’s perspective, how should sex be brought to an end in a situation like this? I’d appreciate your advice.
As for erections, I have no problems at all when using ED medication, and I can ejaculate every day when masturbating. I also occasionally meet other women casually, and in those cases I’m often able to climax during penetration. Thank you in advance.
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> Since you sometimes meet other women on the side, and you can usually climax during penetration with them,
in that case, it seems like you should continue seeing other women as well.
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It must be tough if you can’t climax even with ED medication (>_<)
Maybe switching partners or changing the setting could help. The woman might start to lose confidence too, so perhaps taking a break from masturbation? ♡
From your question, it sounds like you can climax when you’re just casually seeing someone, so maybe dating multiple people and rotating between them could work.
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I’m pretty much the same, but in the end, I think it’s because I masturbate too much.
You may also have gotten used to your usual partner, so the stimulation isn’t as strong anymore.
In my case, once I’ve kept going until the woman is satisfied, I might finish with a handjob, or it’s not unusual for me to go home without climaxing.
And I know this may sound rude, but with women who have had a lot of sexual experience, it could also be an issue of tightness.
When I occasionally sample a woman around 20, I sometimes manage to finish inside.
But wanting to masturbate even after taking ED medication—you really are a dedicated masturbator, haha.
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I think it can be tough on the woman too if you don’t finish.
Questioner, try abstaining from masturbation before meeting your partner.
Personally, I don’t masturbate for two days before seeing a woman.
The other day, we couldn’t meet for two months because she wasn’t feeling well. When we finally met again, it felt so good that I finished after only a short time（笑）. So, for example, if you stop masturbating from the day you meet until your next meeting, you should be able to finish quickly.
Once you’ve built a comfortable relationship with her, you could try:
・Changing the location or atmosphere
I like standing from behind in front of a mirror.
・Light cosplay
I like clothed play, such as sexy lingerie or fluffy hoodies.
Just make sure to discuss it with her thoroughly first so you don’t put any pressure on her, and then give it a try…
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Once you get used to intense stimulation like handjobs, blowjobs, or masturbation, it can turn into a vicious cycle.
As a first step, stop relying on handjobs to reach orgasm. If you can’t climax, just accept that you won’t ejaculate.
If possible, try to masturbate less.
If you do receive a blowjob, limit it to before penetration—and the same goes for handjobs.
Ideally, skip both and penetrate when you’re both highly aroused and at your peak.
It’s important to enjoy the pleasure of climaxing inside the vagina, but also to remember that it’s reassuring and gratifying for a woman when she can climax too. Take that as something to genuinely appreciate.
If you can’t climax, remember that it may be the woman who loses interest and cools off—not just you.
From a man’s perspective, if you’re caressing a woman to help her climax but already know she won’t, it can be a real turn-off.
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