Every so often, some of the women I’m currently seeing tell me they’d like to meet the other women I’m seeing. I’m generally open about seeing multiple partners, but naturally, I don’t share any specific details about the others.
I can’t tell whether they’re joking or serious. From a woman’s perspective, what might they be feeling when they say this?
Also, I imagine some of you may have had similar experiences. How did you handle it—including the option of not introducing them at all? Are there any points I should keep in mind?
This is new territory for me, so I’d appreciate hearing about your experiences and advice.
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Thank you, everyone.
I learned a lot from your responses.
I mentioned that I’m basically open to anything because I decide how to proceed based on the individual girl.
I’ll take your advice into consideration and continue with my papa-katsu activities.
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I don’t have any personal experience with this.
This is just speculation, but I think it simply means she’s curious about the other girls. She probably wouldn’t say that to anyone except a papa she’s close to, so I think she trusts you, Airi.
That said, I feel like women can end up trying to one-up each other without even realizing it. If there are differences in allowance or in the places you take them, some girls may start wondering, “Why am I…?” and feel dissatisfied.
If you can handle that part well, I think it might be worth letting her meet the girls she wants to meet, but…
Personally, I wouldn’t like it. I am curious about the other girls, but somewhere in my heart, I’d still want to be the number one.
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- He may be hinting that he’s comfortable enough to say he wants to meet other girls too.
- He may also be saying, “I like you, but don’t take it too seriously.”
Those are the possibilities that come to mind. What do you think?
As for whether he’s joking or serious, I think you should just ask him honestly, “Are you joking, or do you really mean that?” Depending on his answer, you can decide how you want to respond.
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We’ve gone to hot springs together for the day and things like that. It was a lot of fun.
As Papuwa mentioned, you need to be able to give clear instructions and lead everyone fairly and equally. It’s not suitable for men who aren’t attentive.
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It’s a little different, but I do have a monthly partner who brings her best friend or sister along without asking first.
To avoid making my regular look bad, I give the girl she brings about twice the going rate for an adult relationship at Universe—whether it’s dinner or an adult relationship.
By “adult relationship,” I mean the so-called threesome with sisters or best friends. They’re all cute, so I don’t feel bad about it, but threesomes honestly aren’t pleasurable at all, lol.
Unlike most papas, I have absolutely no desire to be seen as a man. I simply want to be valued as a “papa,” so I enjoy the situation. And if she introduces me to her best friend or sister, I’m probably not being rated poorly as a papa, at least, so I don’t feel bad about it.
For the record, I’m supposedly not dating multiple people. 😅
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As adults, it’s not easy to make new female friends, and you can’t exactly tell other people that you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so maybe that’s why she wants to see you ✩.*˚
Besides, you wouldn’t want to meet up with another woman who was seeing a man you disliked. I think she must have said it because Early is such a wonderful man (^○^)
You should probably be prepared for the women to talk about you among themselves（笑）
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Since you probably don’t talk about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with your regular friends, it may simply be a bit of curiosity, along with the relief of no longer having to keep it to yourself and the chance to make friends in the papa-katsu community.
I don’t think there’s anything particularly wrong with it.
You could make it a dinner gathering and let the women decide how they want to take things from there. Or, if you’re already interested in group intimacy, you could arrange it with a private room in mind from the outset.
Marika
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