A little while ago, I started feeling less interested in the papa (a male supporter) I'd been seeing for just under two years. I decided to re-register, thinking I'd end things after finding someone new.
Four men sent me offers, and I met all of them, but the conversation and physical chemistry didn't click, so I didn't enjoy myself at all. On the contrary, it made me realize again what was good about the papa I had been planning to leave. I'm not sure whether I can enjoy our relationship like before, but I'm wondering if I should continue seeing him after all. I haven't told him anything about wanting to break up yet.
Has anyone ever decided to break up with someone but ended up staying together? If so, were you able to continue the relationship afterward?
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This may be slightly different from your situation, but I once heard from a gentleman who was unsure whether to end things with a woman whose schedule rarely matched his.
In the end, they didn’t break things off and seem to have continued for quite some time. However, if the reason is that your feelings have cooled, she may notice from your attitude during dates…
Personally, I feel that these relationships can last if neither person makes things uncomfortable for the other.
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I’ve thought about ending things with the woman I’ve been seeing the longest several times, but we’re still together.
In my case, I intentionally leave a little more time between meetings. But whenever she messages me asking, “Aren’t we meeting this month?” I find it cute and end up seeing her anyway.
Actually, I’m currently thinking that it might be okay to end things, so I’m considering putting a little more distance between us.
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I once broke up with a former “top girl.”
I enjoy helping my PJs develop into businesswomen, but perhaps because my allowance was so generous, she stopped putting effort into her work. When I saw that, I was the one who ended things. She broke down crying.
After quite some time had passed, my former top girl contacted me, and we went out for dinner twice. It became clear that she had changed and was working hard again, so I suggested that we resume our relationship, and we got back together.
We’re much closer now than we were before. I’m also teaching her the business side of things quite seriously.
She’s unbelievably beautiful—so beautiful that she looks almost extraterrestrial to anyone who sees her—but no matter how generous my allowance is, it won’t guarantee her financial security for life. I want her to work hard at building a business so she can become independent, so if she doesn’t make an effort, I’m quite strict about ending things.
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It’s a slightly different situation, but I once had someone I’d been seeing for several years break things off with me. The reason was somewhat understandable, but also somewhat unclear. She came back a few months later.
Since I hadn’t grown to dislike her, I started seeing her again for a while. However, while we were apart, I had grown closer to someone else, so I had less time to offer her than before. Things became awkward, and we eventually parted ways.
It’s possible she didn’t pick up on any of that, but I think it also depends on the other person’s circumstances.
Many people are seeing multiple partners or already looking for someone new, so if you’re planning to come back, I think it’s better to do so sooner rather than later.
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I’ve seen my current papa (a male supporter) several times, and even when we argue, it feels like neither of us genuinely intends to end things. So in the end, my papa (a male supporter) tends to accommodate me, or my demands get accepted, and that’s how we make up.
If my demands hadn’t been met, we might have broken things off. But ultimately, maybe everything is still going the way he wants.
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