Men don’t tell a woman they love, “Come see me,” and if she tells them, “Come see me,” they’ll go se...

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Men don’t tell a woman they love, “Come see me,” and if she tells them, “Come see me,” they’ll go see her without a single complaint, no matter how busy or exhausted they are, right? If a woman they love tells them she’s lonely, they won’t find it bothersome—they’ll actually feel a sense of urgency and rush to see her and hold her, right? In the end, a man’s love is proportional to his actions, isn’t it? A man whose words and actions don’t match will always be hopeless.

寺本 瞬 · Answer

Teramoto from the Tokyo branch of Universe Club here as well.

When I’m really into a woman, I tend to become completely blind to everything else, so I’m the type who’ll do whatever she asks, as much as I possibly can. I’ve even come close to ruining my life because of it. lol

But most of my best friends seem to be the opposite, and they often tell me, “You’re seriously such an idiot.”

Still, I guess everyone’s different. People have different values and feelings about “love,” after all…

てつ · Answer

That’s just how you see it. People are individuals.

茉莉花 · Answer

That may be true for couples in a more serious relationship.

But even among boyfriends and girlfriends, some people aren’t like that.

And with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), the basic rule is not to cause trouble for your partner. Some people provide an allowance precisely because they want to skip that kind of hassle.

If that’s the kind of relationship you’re looking for, this isn’t the place to find someone—I’m sure you already know that, though.

Marika

ダイ · Answer

They say the one who falls in love loses.

So far, I haven’t had that experience through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).

I do want to be intimate again soon, though…

That said, I’d be happy if someone asked me to come see them, but I’m not young enough to drop everything and rush over anymore.

向日葵 · Answer

I’m the type who likes to do the pursuing, and I’d feel bad making you come to me every time, so I’ll make sure to respect our personal space. A relationship where only one person bears the burden won’t last.

I do get lonely sometimes, so I might cry if you start finding me a hassle!

Isn’t it the same for women, too—not just men? You can’t lump all men together and say they’re all a certain way. It really depends on the person (*^^*)

カズ · Answer

I don’t think that’s necessarily the case.

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