You women here all seem fairly independent, so why did you start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
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Papa-katsu is generally portrayed as something shameful, even in weekly magazines, right?
I’m a college student, and before I started papa-katsu, my friend and I used to say, “I’d rather kill myself than do papa-katsu! It’s absolutely too embarrassing.” But after going through some things, I became depressed and started binge-eating and purging. I felt bad about wasting money on food, so I decided I wanted some older guy to feed me as much as I could possibly eat, and that’s what led me to start papa-katsu.
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The senior figures in my industry are kind to me, but I’d only end up being treated like a convenient mistress, so that’s not really for me.
I use papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because it’s such a well-designed arrangement: I get to meet people outside my industry, go on wonderful dates, have my intimate needs met, and receive an allowance as well.
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Independent women are the ones who have the healthiest and most advantageous approach to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), right?
Since they’re not struggling financially, they can be selective about their papa (male supporter). And if they can enjoy themselves with a papa they genuinely like while receiving an allowance, isn’t that the best of both worlds?
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I was barely struggling financially, but emotionally, I wasn’t independent or self-disciplined at all.
I’m doing much better now, but I still get irritated or depressed when I argue with my papa.
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I’m back~
There were a lot of reasons I started, but I have my own private life and a regular job too, so I’m independent♪
Thankfully, I think I’ve met a wonderful person, and I’m really enjoying myself now.
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The reason you started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) doesn’t matter to me.
Neither does why other people started papa-katsu.
What matters is whether you’ve met a good person.
That’s what I think.
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If you ask whether I’m truly independent, I’m not sure…
I have a job and can support myself.
I’m doing this for the life experience. I’ve really only known the world around me, and I don’t have much experience with men.
Still, I thought it would give me experiences I couldn’t have on my own. I also like older men, since many of them are people I can genuinely respect. Curiosity played a part too, and I thought it would be nice to have a little extra on top of my current life, so I went to the interview.
I was prepared to give up if I didn’t get accepted by the SALON, thinking it simply wasn’t meant to be.
Maybe it’s something embarrassing since I can’t tell people about it, but I don’t regret it. I’m grateful to have met some wonderful people.
I don’t particularly intend to tell anyone about it, and since it’s my life, I believe I’m responsible for my own choices.
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I think women engage in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), or allowance-based relationships, because they’re financially independent.
I’ve been wondering what separates women who keep ending up in allowance-based relationships that don’t feel worthwhile from those who genuinely enjoy them. Maybe the difference is whether they’re independent or not.
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