I’m supposed to meet my P this Sunday, but I really don’t want to have sex with him. The last time I saw him was a month ago. We’ve known each other for about six months now, but only meet once a month. Last time, we went to a hotel for the first time. He had hair all over his body, including his stomach, which completely grossed me out. He was also constantly leaking pre-ejaculate, and the whole thing made me feel sick. In the end, he’s the type who loses his erection the first time, so nothing happened.
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We said we’d meet again this month, and that’s supposed to be this Sunday. I haven’t replied to his LINE messages since we last met—I normally only reply when we’re arranging a meeting—and he messaged me the day before yesterday saying, “See you Sunday.” I still haven’t replied.
I really don’t want to go. I don’t want to have sex with him.
But we made the plans a month ago. Would it be wrong to cancel at the last minute? I really, really don’t want to see him. Just thinking about it makes me feel sick.
My P is very particular about women and hasn’t been able to date anyone other than me. Since he’s met me so many times, I assume he really likes me, but I dislike him and want to end things.
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I don’t really understand.
You say you don’t like it, yet you still make plans to meet again. Doesn’t that kind of answer your own question?
What kind of answer are you looking for?
“Sounds gross and pathetic. But keep pushing through for the money.” Is that what you want to hear?
If Fuu were a woman, I’d probably say goodbye after the last meeting without immediately making plans for the next one.
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I think the man would feel uncomfortable too if you met him reluctantly, so it would be best to let him know as soon as possible that you’re canceling.
If the date is coming up soon, though, canceling at the last minute would be even more inconsiderate, so I’d go.
I wish you had politely declined sooner.
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It’s a free-choice relationship, so if you don’t want to, I think you should just say no.
Ideally, you should have declined a month ago instead of making the commitment in the first place. The man has probably already made plans, so I do think it’s inconsiderate to back out after agreeing to meet.
That said, you don’t have to force yourself to go through with something you’re uncomfortable with, so please let him know as soon as possible that you’re declining.
From now on, if you feel even slightly uncomfortable, don’t make definite plans right away. Say things like, “Let me think about it,” or “I’ll get back to you after I check my schedule,” and avoid making immediate commitments.
Please don’t become someone who breaks promises.
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