I like spending time with people, but if I don’t set aside one or two days a week when I don’t talk to anyone, I get extremely mentally drained.
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To be honest, I’d be perfectly happy meeting my papa once or twice a month and receiving just enough money to make life a little more comfortable.
Looking at the posts here, I get the impression that a lot of people meet with various papas and receive a substantial amount of allowance, right?
Do you really have to be so aggressive and proactive to do well at a dating club?
When I read the questions here, most of them seem to assume that you’re meeting papas constantly, so I feel a little out of place.
I want to focus mainly on my regular job and hobbies and put a lot of effort into those.
Would this kind of arrangement not be a good fit for someone like me?
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I also enjoy seeing several women on a monthly, pay-per-meeting basis, with an allowance of ¥50,000 each time.
I feel I’d get bored quickly if I focused on just one person, so I keep a certain amount of distance and maintain things that way.
I make offers to women who seem to prefer a similar dating style, so it’s not unusual for an arrangement like this to continue for a year.
I hope you find a man who suits you and a relationship that feels comfortable for you!
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It’s perfectly fine to have one or two people you’d like to meet once or twice a month. There’s absolutely nothing you have to do or should do—you don’t have to do it at all. It’s obvious when you think about it, right?
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No. Just like you, there are plenty of women who are happy to meet a man once or twice a month for a little extra spending money, or to receive enough additional income to cover their rent.
Perhaps because I choose whom to approach based on their profession, women looking to meet once or twice a month actually seem to be in the majority.
I think it only feels like you have to be especially proactive because, by chance, the questions that catch your eye happen to be from women like that.
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I’m the same type of person as you, questioner! You need to be able to switch between ON and OFF, after all. My day job also involves a lot of communication with people, so when I’m on my own, I try not to bring work into it.
Even when I have lingering feelings about a patient’s final moments, I try not to dwell on them. I also try not to get too caught up in things like my allowance or my own worth when I’m active in the club.
I’m a new answerer, so I sometimes get a little down when I realize I’ve written something completely off the mark… but I’m enjoying my private life and living it to the fullest (^○^)
So I think people like you, questioner, are actually better suited to this ♪
I’m glad to find someone who feels the same!
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