Tips Apr 17, 2019 00:10

I’m a female member.

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On a recent date, the man asked me how many offers I had received so far and how many offers were scheduled after his… It made me feel somewhat uncomfortable answering, so I ended up lying and saying, “The club told me not to answer questions about the number of offers I receive.” To be honest, I had already received several offers before him, and I also had dates lined up afterward. However, I became worried that depending on how I answered, I might hurt his feelings. I know it may seem odd for me to say this after lying, but are there any plans to establish a rule that members should neither ask nor answer questions about the number of offers? I imagine that neither the person asking nor the person being asked feels particularly good about it. I would appreciate it if you would consider this.
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I’ll answer this as Maezawa as well. > Are you planning to establish a rule that questions about the number of offers should not be asked or answered? Not at this time. That said, it’s something men care about a great deal, so many men ask how many offers a woman has received before making an offer. As for whether we can tell men the number of offers, there is a clear rule: the club must not disclose a woman’s offer count to men. If a man says he knows it, a staff member has violated the rules and may be subject to disciplinary action. If that happens, please contact the club. So, the most we can do is make sure the number of offers isn’t disclosed to men. After that, women will need to handle the conversation themselves. I’m sure it can be difficult, but it may help to accept that men are simply like that and prepare an answer in advance before going on a date.
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