Tips
Apr 17, 2019 00:10
I’m a female member.
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On a recent date, the man asked me how many offers I had received so far and how many offers were scheduled after his… It made me feel somewhat uncomfortable answering, so I ended up lying and saying, “The club told me not to answer questions about the number of offers I receive.”
To be honest, I had already received several offers before him, and I also had dates lined up afterward. However, I became worried that depending on how I answered, I might hurt his feelings.
I know it may seem odd for me to say this after lying, but are there any plans to establish a rule that members should neither ask nor answer questions about the number of offers? I imagine that neither the person asking nor the person being asked feels particularly good about it.
I would appreciate it if you would consider this.