Today was my papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) debut. I hooked up with a guy 20 years older than me for the first time, and surprisingly, it wasn’t bad.
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I took a shower as soon as I got home, but I didn’t cry.
So I guess that means I’m not cut out for papa-katsu, right...? Is that okay to say?
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I think it depends on what prompted you to join the club in the first place.
Some people push themselves too hard and gradually become emotionally numb, to the point where nothing moves them anymore. On the other hand, some people enjoy their relationships and find their everyday lives more fulfilling and enriched.
I think it also depends on your mindset and how you choose to enjoy it, so let’s take things at our own pace without overdoing it♪
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Just because you cried doesn’t necessarily mean you’re suffering. It could still become a trauma somewhere deep down. Personally, I think you should stop right away if you’re forcing yourself to be with older men.
But if you feel, “I don’t really need to quit; it’s not that hard,” then I won’t stop you. I think you’re old enough to take responsibility for your own actions, so keep going if that’s what you choose.
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Welcome.
You did great. I’m glad it wasn’t as unpleasant as you expected.
If you’re getting lots of offers, take your time choosing a papa (a male supporter) for a monthly arrangement.
I hope you’re able to have enjoyable, positive experiences, even if only in small ways.
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Mac! An age gap of 40 years or more is what papa-katsu is all about.
Oh—maybe that’s actually jiji-katsu?
That’s when your cuteness will really shine, questioner（笑).
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