Tips Mar 20, 2022 13:50

Are there quite a few men who visit sex establishments even while using a dating club?

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I’m scared of STIs. And if they’re going to places affordable for guys in their 20s and other younger men, I feel like the turnover would be even higher, and they might bring back an STI. I’d really hate it if my papa went.
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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Would you go to a brothel or something?! It seems the male respondents here don’t go. I get regular checkups every month when I pick up my birth control pills!
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I feel like amateur women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are more likely to have an STI, which scares me. On the other hand, many escort establishments say in their job postings that their professionals get tested for STIs once a month.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I stopped going. Most sex-work establishments are pretty dingy, so I never really liked them. And if I’m going to spend the money on a high-end soapland, I’d rather have a fun conversation and sleep with someone I’m close to. Since I have a partner who used to work at a high-end soapland for those spur-of-the-moment times when I might feel like going, I don’t feel the need to go at all anymore.
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I can’t speak for everyone, but I wouldn’t go. Men seem to want different things, so I imagine some may be open to it.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t go to sex-work establishments, but I do go to men’s esthetics salons. There’s no kissing or touching, so it’s a bit of sweet torture—but I don’t think that’s necessarily a bad thing.
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As I mentioned before, many STIs in women are asymptomatic, so they often go unnoticed, allowing infections to spread without anyone realizing it. Whether it’s women working in the sex industry or women outside of it, you need to be careful. A man who tries to have unprotected sex is always having unprotected sex with other women too. The only way to protect yourself from getting infected is to practice safe sex.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve completely stopped going to adult entertainment establishments. STIs aside, I just don’t feel like going during the COVID pandemic. If I were to go, I’d spend time with a woman around 20. In that case, it would just be for sexual activities. On the other hand, when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I don’t spend time with women around 20. Unless a woman is at least in her late 20s, I no longer feel like doing anything besides sex. People who keep those two things separate might belong to a dating club while also occasionally going to adult entertainment establishments.
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