Are you doing this because you’re looking for love? Or for pleasure and to satisfy your sexual needs?
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If it’s both, what percentage does each account for? Ask yourself that question again♪
Since you’re fundamentally people driven by pleasure, doesn’t talking about love mean nothing, no matter how much you go on about it?
For some reason, my papa (a male supporter) often tells me he loves me lol
So go ahead and squeeze money out of those shameless liars who cheapen the value of such precious words♡
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If we genuinely fell in love here, it would feel too heavy—I couldn’t handle it.
It’s scary.
Fuu doesn’t say “I love you.”
It’s true that this is fundamentally driven by desire.
I want to safely have sex with a young woman, within the confines of a room, in a transactional relationship, as if I were with a pretend girlfriend.
To make that possible, I respect my partner, treat her courteously, kindly, and like a gentleman, pay her properly, keep myself in check, and follow the rules while fulfilling my desires.
The woman’s desire for money is fulfilled by spending time with me.
However, since either of us will end things if something becomes unpleasant, I’d break things off if a woman started giving off the impression that she was “just trying to squeeze money out of me,” like the person asking this question. Likewise, things would end if a papa only wanted her body and treated her carelessly.
We should never forget to treat each other with courtesy and respect.
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I’m not sure about the proportions, but I think it’s a combination of romantic desire, sexual desire, and self-improvement.
Mac mentioned romantic desire before, and that really resonated with me. I’m not looking for love, though if we spend a long time together, feelings might develop. For now, I honestly don’t know.
I’m a very driven person, especially when it comes to work, so perhaps I’m seeing someone to help maintain a balance. I may not be a true gentleman, but I like the idea of dating while putting on a gentlemanly act and behaving accordingly—that’s probably why I’m doing this.
I’m well aware of it, but I think I do have a strong sense of self-love.
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I’m dating in search of love.
I can support myself through my own work, so I’m not constantly asking for money.
I don’t use apps because I dislike vulgar men.
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I’m not doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because I’m looking for love.
More than anything, I do it to satisfy my curiosity—to see sides of myself that I normally don’t—and because I’m looking for mutually convenient partners with the women I meet.
It varies from person to person, and even with the same person, it can change over time.
I’ll describe it below as curiosity : sexual desire : affection.
Even when I make an offer, there are women who would be 9:1:0, and others who would be 8:2:0.
My sex drive is on the low side, and since I meet at least one person every week, I don’t really get worked up anymore. Basically, I only want to sleep with women I’m genuinely interested in, so my sexual desire is fairly mild.
As the relationship continues, I get to know the person better and my curiosity gradually fades, while the sexual side becomes a larger part of it. If the sex is good early on, I’d say it’s probably around 7:2:1.
After about six months, I think it becomes more like 5:3:2.
I realized my sex drive is lower than I expected. However, all the women I’m currently seeing are good in bed, so I no longer feel intensely sexually attracted to any particular one of them.
I’m seeing multiple people, and I make a point of not becoming too attached to anyone in particular, so my feelings are fairly subdued as well.
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I’m Karasaki from Universe Club Customer Success, and I’d like to answer as well.
The questioner’s papa (a male supporter) is happy because he can enjoy a pseudo-romantic relationship with you, and you’re happy because you receive money.
It’s a win-win situation, so what’s wrong with that? No one is losing anything.
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Sex drive: 3
Interest: 5
Affection: 2
That’s about right.
More than anything, I’m interested in how a woman responds in a sexy way. But when things continue for a while and I start to develop feelings, her reactions change again, so affection is important too.
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Sex drive: 5
Mentorship: 4
Affection: 1
That’s where I’m at right now, I guess.
Zero affection would feel too lonely, so I’ve set it at 1.
More than anything, though, I’ve started getting hooked on seeing whether I can find papa-katsu girls at men’s esthe salons. Compared with the allowance I give my regulars, it’s practically free. If I leave a 1 as a tip on my way out, they remember my face right away, which makes things easy.
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