Tips Mar 19, 2022 11:30

Why do older men want to look younger? Aren’t there a lot of older guys trying hard to look young so they don’t look old?

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Honestly, as a PJ, I don’t care how old or young an older guy looks lol An older guy is still an older guy, so don’t you think he should compete based on his personality and financial means instead? Is there anything you all do to stay healthy or keep a youthful appearance?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I cook for myself, so I’m particular about the ingredients I use. I don’t try to look younger, but people do tell me I look young. Of course, my skin has aged with time, but I think my naturally youthful face and the fact that I’m always smiling make me look younger.
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This is a society where having substance and financial means—and looking good as well—can help you earn even more. Just look at America. There are no obese people among the elite.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Exactly. That’s why I focus on what I bring to the table. I believe both men and women can become more attractive as they get older. You gain more experience and become more financially comfortable, after all… For example, people may praise you for being an ideal supporter, and even women might…
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I don’t see anything wrong with making an effort to look younger. If you don’t look clean, youthful, and well-groomed, people complain about that too. Honestly, I don’t know what you’re supposed to do… Women make an effort to stay youthful, so I don’t think there’s anything strange about men doing the same.
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Don’t you find that being with someone older can be more fun and relaxing? They’ve had so much more life experience than you, after all—they’re like mentors in life. I know I have a thing for older men, though… haha.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you don’t have any major issues with your appearance, you’d probably make money more efficiently in the adult entertainment industry. You should try that instead. I think most female members are looking for, at the very least, a sense of cleanliness. To come across as well-groomed, male members need to make at least some effort toward anti-aging. That’s what Fuu believes. If the terms are otherwise the same, I feel that most women would choose a papa (a male supporter) who looks youthful and well-groomed.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I think I understand what you’re saying. That’s why I compete through financial means—the generosity of my allowance. That said, simply offering money isn’t enough, so I live with an even greater focus on my appearance than most women do. I probably have a slimmer waist than you, and I might even be more well-endowed. I’ll make the allowance generous, so how about we show each other our bodies next time? ♡
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I’m a genuine grandpa with grandchildren, so even though it’s a dating club, I make a point of not putting myself in front of young women (haha). I don’t do anything in particular to look younger.
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I do want to be attractive to women, so I pay attention to my appearance(笑) That said, wanting to be popular with women isn’t the only reason I take care of my looks. It also tends to work in my favor professionally. Looking clean and well-groomed is obviously a plus, and being fit and toned makes people feel that you’re capable of managing yourself properly. Having good stamina also helps you hold your own in business. Overall, I suppose wanting to be attractive to women is probably the biggest reason, since it tends to go over well with them(笑) There are women with all kinds of interests, like you, so it’s simply a matter of supply and demand—and I think that’s perfectly fine.
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If you stop caring about your appearance because you want to look young and be popular, then you’re finished as a man, aren’t you? What’s wrong with working hard toward those goals? What’s strange about it? It makes no sense. I work every day to develop all three: my appearance, my character, and my financial means. If you think nothing matters except money, then go ahead and focus only on the money—even if the man is bald, overweight, or has terrible body odor. There are men who can be helped by that.
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