People who are working adults—not students—but still need money and do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) ultimately don’t have impressive jobs or educational backgrounds, right?
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When I hear my papa (a male supporter) talk about the other women he dates, it’s always things like being unmarried and pregnant and unable to raise their child, or having only graduated high school and earning too little to make ends meet. So, in the end, does that mean financially independent women simply don’t do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
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After entering the workforce, I went through a lot and had a period when I was really struggling mentally. That’s when I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I already had money, but I figured having even more couldn’t hurt.
As for my education, it may sound presumptuous to say this myself, but I think I’ve achieved an exceptionally high return on my parents’ investment（笑).
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Who are you to talk about women who do papa-katsu with such a condescending, presumptuous attitude? lol
The women Fuu sees on monthly arrangements are office workers who are reasonably self-sufficient. I honestly think that if someone can support herself, whether she works for a major company or has an impressive educational background shouldn’t matter.
One woman became a nurse even though she came from a poor family, using student loans to pay for school. She’s now married with children and living happily. She did papa-katsu to repay her loans and have some spending money day to day.
There are plenty of ordinary women who are self-sufficient and do papa-katsu while thinking about their futures.
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There are all kinds of people, so I don’t think you can lump everyone together.
As for clubs, I’ve only made offers based on profiles I saw on the site, and I haven’t actually met that many girls yet, so this is just my personal impression. Still, I don’t think the type of person you’re describing is in the majority.
Also, even people with good educational backgrounds or jobs at fairly large companies can have relatively low salaries, so I think there are plenty of people who need the money. Everyone has different reasons for needing it.
Again, just based on my own experience, I think I’ve met around 30–40 people through apps, and my impression was that many—especially students—treated it like a well-paying part-time job.
So only one or two arrangements ended up continuing.
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Not at all.
It seemed like there were far more women in hostess clubs and the adult entertainment industry who were pregnant while unmarried, obsessed with hosts, being abused by their boyfriends, lending money to gambling-addicted boyfriends who then disappeared, unable to support themselves because they had dropped out of high school and earned little while being obsessed with designer brands, or who lied about having sick parents to deceive their clients before running off. Actually, that was almost all of them over there.
What surprised me about being registered with a dating club was that there were quite a few perfectly ordinary women who had graduated from college and had regular day jobs.
If this place had mostly been filled with women from the hostess-club and adult-entertainment world, their values about life and things would have been so different from mine that I couldn’t have dated them. I would have quit right away.
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I get the greatest joy out of finding PJ girls who entered the workforce straight out of middle or high school, only to be held back by their lack of academic credentials and the barriers of a male-dominated society. I teach and mentor them in business so they can become independent and turn their lives around. It makes me feel happy knowing I’m helping others.
I’m not particularly smart myself, and I’ve spent my life struggling after being looked down on in society, so I understand very well how women who start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) feel.
I’d never abandon these hardworking girls. That’s what I say to sound cool, but I still get hard m(｡>__<｡)m
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