My regular psychiatrist told me that if I’m choosing between a dating club and working as a hostess in Kabukicho, I should work in Kabukicho. I’ve been frequently approached by nightlife scouts in Shinjuku lately, so when I asked which would suit me better, they said Kabukicho would be a better fit.
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I can still make ends meet with my part-time job for now, but when I think about six months or a year from now, I feel that eventually I may need to consider it.
People here have recommended papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but it’s important to think things through for yourself!
Changing the subject, do you all think a woman’s value only lasts until she turns 30?
Lately, people have started saying to me, “What are you going to do if you don’t get married by 30 and end up left on the shelf?” Honestly, I’m starting to think I might just escape overseas! LOL
If you’re emotionally vulnerable, I think you’d be better off working a day job.
A doctor in Kabukicho? Are you currently working in nightlife and referring to an affiliated hospital?
Before worrying about money or what being in your 30s means, try treating your mental illness first.
Once you’re in your 30s, your mind and body are more mature than in your 20s, and your overall appeal increases. By your 40s or 50s, you’ve lived twice as long as a woman in her 20s, so you understand:
- How to present your strengths and weaknesses
- The clothes and makeup that suit you
- How to speak and navigate life
But of course, it depends on how you’ve lived throughout your 20s and 30s. So you shouldn’t let yourself stagnate now.
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Why are you so fixated on part-time work?
Please find a job while you’re still young enough to be hired as a full-time employee.
Even for regular jobs, it gets harder to land a permanent position as you get older. Stop doing things that involve flattering men like this, and get a normal job.
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Recently, the unmarried rates among people aged 30–34 are:
- Men: 47.3%
- Women: 34.5%
Nearly half of men and over a third of women are still unmarried. There are still plenty of single men around the same age.
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A woman’s value starts at 30.
She’s not “left on the shelf” or anything like that—that’s when her true appeal really begins.
I’m not interested in 20-year-old kids.
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