Do you keep in regular contact with the men you meet? I’m not good at sending sales-like messages, and I don’t know what to say.

This is Unno from the staff. I get the impression that many gentlemen are concerned about how quickly they receive replies. Since the gentleman is probably bringing up topics as well, why not try expanding the conversation from there? You may already be doing this, but I think that’s probably the easiest way for her to reply. I hope this helps.

Men can be happy even about ordinary, everyday things. So really, isn’t pretty much anything fine?

A lot of women seem unsure about what to send. The messages that tend to leave the best impression are continuations of something you talked about the last time you met. For example, “I watched that thing you mentioned the other day!” Other than things you discussed in person, they might send casual updates about everyday life, like “The ___ from the convenience store was delicious” or “I tried Starbucks’ new drink.” Recently, when there was an earthquake, I received messages from several women. Weather-related messages are probably the easiest and require the least effort. Some men may find it annoying if you message too often, and married men may have reasons they can’t respond, so it’s probably best to ask whether it’s okay to message them and pay attention to their reactions.