Tips Mar 18, 2022 16:09

I’m the person who just asked about finding a bad review through a phone-number search.

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I found it by entering the phone number into Google and coming across a site called Phone Number Search, where people post reviews about nuisance calls and such. I decided not to immediately end things with my papa (a male supporter) just because of that review, since he’s usually a gentleman and I didn’t want to take it at face value. However, due to personal circumstances, I had already decided on the last day I would meet him, and I was just about to tell him that it would soon be time for us to part ways. We usually go our separate ways at a major station. We’re heading in opposite directions and take different lines, but there have been several times when he followed me as far as the station where I transfer (then he rides back in the opposite direction). On those occasions, I went to the restroom before transferring and managed to shake him off. Because of this, I’m unsure whether I should tell him in advance which day will be our last, or wait until the final day. Could you please give me some advice? Sorry for asking again.
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That behavior clearly makes him a person to avoid, doesn’t it? He’s certainly no gentleman. Hopefully, he’s someone who won’t cause any trouble.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If he’s following you all the way home, calling him a gentleman is a stretch—it sounds pretty stalkerish. This is very different from what you expected, so you really need to be careful. If he doesn’t have any of your personal information, I think it’s best to: - Say nothing at your last meeting - Don’t make any plans to meet again - Send him a LINE message saying you’re quitting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), won’t be able to see him anymore, and thanking him for everything - Block him - Block his phone number as well Trying to tell him in person sounds like it could get difficult. Of course, this is assuming he doesn’t have any of your personal information. If he knows anything that could identify you, the response would need to be different.
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Would you normally call someone like that a gentleman? Or does “a gentleman” mean someone who gives you a generous allowance?! If he’s following you around like that, I’d let him know after your last meeting that you’re ending things. Wouldn’t you be afraid he might even follow you home? Actually… I probably wouldn’t meet him again at all. I wouldn’t consider him a gentleman…
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m starting to think that saying, “You don’t seem like the kind of person who would say something like that,” was probably a mistake. If you’re going to say it, I think it should be on the final day.
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