It’s an adult relationship (intimate), and he gives me an allowance pay-per-meeting.
The other day, he gave me his phone number, saying he’d be in trouble if our LINE chat disappeared.
I knew I probably shouldn’t, but I searched the number. I found reviews about my papa (a male supporter), including one that said the reviewer had received threatening messages over a financial dispute.
The messages were included in the review as well. I can’t go into detail, but they were along the lines of, “Are you going to scam me out of my money and run? Watch yourself when you go outside.”
He doesn’t seem like the kind of person who would say something like that, but seeing this scared me.
What should I do?
There’s also a possibility that someone wrote something made up about her out of resentment or some other reason, without her knowing.
You won’t know unless you ask her directly.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
The club usually gives you his phone number when he first makes an offer, right?
Are you doing papa-katsu through an app?
How exactly do people search for someone by phone number?
Is there a site for that?
If things have been going well for a long time with no problems, it seems like it should be fine. But if anything he says or does concerns you, I think it’s up to you to decide whether to continue or end things.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I didn’t know you could look up things like that using a phone number. That’s scary…both of them are.
What the man wrote in his review is frightening, but it’s also scary to think that someone might be looking into you that way.
Since you don’t know how accurate that review really is, I would trust how he treats me when we meet. Still, I’d probably keep in the back of my mind that he wrote something like that.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Some people leave spiteful feedback when things don’t go their way. Even when the incident really happened, there are always people who exaggerate the story or give a one-sided account.
It’s worth keeping in mind, but I think the best approach is not to worry about it too much.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Since you can normally call through LINE, asking for your phone number on top of that may mean he has some other motive.
But not realizing that people can look up his reviews once they know his number is pretty careless.
Even if he is a bad person, I don’t think he can do anything too serious.
Just to be safe, I’d report it to the club and end things using some other excuse.
—It’s me.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I didn’t know they could look into things like that…
Since it feels a little scary, should you report it to the staff? If you feel uncomfortable, you can simply say goodbye, but after reading a review like that, it’s understandable that you’d be too scared to focus on the conversation. I’d end things sooner rather than later, since it would be frightening if he turned into a stalker.
You haven’t given him your address too, have you?
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
