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Mar 18, 2022 06:24
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Should I clearly tell this kind of troublesome papa (a male supporter) what I don’t like before ending things, or would it be better to cut off contact without saying anything?
Also, he’s taken a ton of photos of me, and I’m worried he might misuse them.
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Other
Wouldn’t “Thank you for everything” be fine?
Unrelated, but do you guys really not take photos of each other? I take photos pretty often, and everyone happily flashes a peace sign or strikes a pose.
I don’t misuse them, though(笑)
Other
Either way, it just sounds like a hassle.
I’ve never had someone suddenly cut off contact with me, but since that seems to happen fairly often, it might actually be the better option.
Also, based on what I’ve heard from the girls, there are quite a few people who take photos, and they seem highly likely to be strange. Please keep that in mind going forward.
Other
It may be best to leave him alone and gradually reduce your LINE messages.
He sounds like a man who gives off a slightly dangerous vibe…
Please be careful, as he could potentially become a stalker.
If anything happens, you should probably report it to the staff.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Either way, I have a feeling it’ll turn into a hassle.
There’s no point in saying something hurtful, so I’d probably either briefly explain why and end things, or just stop responding.
But if I gave a reason, it seems like things would get even more complicated afterward, so going no-contact feels like the safest option.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Everyone has their own way of ending things.
I’m the type who wants to know the reason, but there are also quite a few women who simply stop responding.
Well, either way is fine.
If you let him take your picture, I think you have to accept the possibility that it could be misused. Just make up some excuse, like saying a friend used it without your permission.
That said, if you were worried about that risk, you should have refused to let him take your picture in the first place.