Does being offered ¥50,000 per meeting mean I’m unattractive?
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I joined this site and have had cosmetic surgery twice. Some people have even offered me an allowance higher than that on their own, but I still end up being offered ¥50,000 per meeting. I’m feeling down, wondering if my looks are only average, and I’m also confused—if they liked me enough to make an offer, then why?
I’m going to spend ¥2 million on cosmetic surgery, thinking that next time will be different.
So my question is: Am I only average-looking because I’m not cute? If that’s the reason, why was I approached in the first place?
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As everyone has said, it’s not all about looks.
If even a woman in her late 40s like me can receive an allowance, then if cuteness were the only factor determining allowance, I wouldn’t be getting anything at all.
That said, I’m confident I’ve become someone who’s fun to talk to, shows affection through my expressions and gestures, and makes my partner feel like they never want to let me go in bed.
Other than your surgically altered face, what can you take pride in? What are you able to offer your partner?
If you spend ¥2 million believing that your face is everything and end up with the same result, are you going to spend ¥20 million next time? I’m worried about what that will do to your mental health.
Marika
P.S. I do think appearance, including your face, plays a major role in getting your foot in the door and receiving an offer.
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I understand you’ve already had cosmetic surgery and are planning to have more, but I’m sure you’re probably already a beautiful person.
If you still plan to undergo further procedures, I think it may simply be that you yourself are dissatisfied with your appearance. I can understand the anxiety and sadness that may come from that, but no one has actually told you to your face that you’re unattractive, right?
Let me say it again: I think you’re already beautiful.
Once you start having cosmetic surgery, it can be frightening to become fixated on one feature after another and develop body dysmorphic disorder.
Wasn’t the money you earned through your club activities originally meant to be used to make yourself happy? You didn’t join just to become depressed because you don’t like your face.
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Once it goes over 5, both men and women inevitably start to feel the influence of money to some extent.
It’s just that a lot of people don’t like that.
And besides looks, what matters is charm and whether they seem to be enjoying themselves.
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I don’t think it’s about your looks. Have you ever wondered why?
I think it’s probably the way you carry yourself.
There’s not much point in getting plastic surgery, so spend your money on something else.
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I think the mistake lies in assuming that the allowance depends on looks.
There may be men who choose their partners based solely on appearance, but they’re probably in the minority.
And I don’t think appearance is the same thing as cuteness, either.
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It’s simply a matter of the papa’s budget, so I don’t think the questioner has done anything wrong.
Applying the 2:6:2 rule:
- 20% offer 4 or less per meeting
- 60% offer 5 per meeting
- 20% offer 6 or more per meeting
That’s roughly how it breaks down. In other words, it seems that 80% of the papas on Universe offer 5 or less per meeting.
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I don’t think men decide the allowance based solely on looks.
I’m not sure whether 50,000 yen is the average, but if you feel, “I’m cuter than average, so I can’t accept only getting the average,” why not tell him that—or date someone who offers more than average?
Have you thought about why it ends up being 50,000 yen even after they initially offered more? You could try saying, “I’d like to go with the amount you proposed.”
If they offered more but it ultimately ends up being 50,000 yen, doesn’t that suggest it isn’t about your looks? It could be your attitude or various other factors…
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