Is there anything I should be careful about to prevent the woman I’m seeing from breaking things off with me?
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When I see questions like this, I start imagining that the woman I’m seeing may actually want to break up with me too.
I believe I’m probably her only male partner, so I wonder if she’s putting up with things for the money...
Please tell me what I should be mindful of to keep her from losing interest as much as possible. I don’t want to pressure or force her into anything...
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> Is there anything I should keep in mind to avoid having the woman I’m seeing initiate a breakup?
I think the simplest and most effective approach is to give her a more generous allowance.
Ideally, you’d improve your own appeal, but that’s not something you can easily do overnight. Even a man might be able to change his appearance through cosmetic surgery, but his essential character is much harder to change.
So, when it comes to something you can do right away that will actually make a difference, I think increasing the allowance is probably your best option.
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Consideration, kindness, trust, and physical compatibility, of course! 😊
Consideration → It’s embarrassing to be with someone who treats staff like servants or only thinks about themselves.
Kindness → If I’m feeling unwell and have no choice but to ask to reschedule, it really helps when they’re genuinely concerned rather than reluctantly agreeing.
Trust → If they keep bombarding me with messages, I feel like I have no private life and it becomes a hassle. I start wondering, “Don’t they trust me? Do they really need to know where I am all the time?”
Physical compatibility → This one goes without saying, right? lol ♪
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Personal hygiene, how he treats the staff at restaurants, and whether he makes you feel valued are important too. And, of course, money.
But if this is causing you stress, I think you should consider ending things.
Otherwise, you’ll just be wasting your emotional energy, money, and time.
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There are many things to appreciate about men.
Someone who shares your interests and conversation, and is fun and comfortable to be around.
Someone whose sex is so good that you can’t bring yourself to leave.
Someone who always treats you to a luxurious experience and makes you feel good.
Someone who gives a generous allowance.
And so on.
Some people have several of these qualities, and those relationships tend to last longer.
In any case, it’s important to figure out what your partner is looking for—and asking other people won’t solve that for you. I think that, even though they phrase it differently, that’s essentially what Kazu and Mac are saying too.
Marika
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