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Mar 15, 2022 04:07
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If I’m offered a low allowance, I feel guilty for selling myself cheap and devastated that I was valued so low. I feel like I’ll suffer from this forever. How can I make these feelings go away?
7 answers
Other
Rather than carry this with you for the rest of your life, take care of yourself and enjoy the present (* 'ᵕ' )☆
The amount of your allowance ≠ your worth! (That’s “not equal to.”)
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
To avoid suffering, just don’t do it for an amount you’re not comfortable with.
If you feel like you’re “selling yourself” or think you’ll suffer for the rest of your life, papa-katsu probably isn’t for you, so it may be best to quit altogether.
Other
From now on, maybe you should turn down anything other than an allowance you’re comfortable with.
There are all kinds of people out there, so hopefully you can find someone you genuinely feel good about seeing.
I think you should get one big, generous payment and then quit.
Other
It won’t go away, so if you’re not comfortable with someone, end things and look for someone else.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
The allowance is something both parties agree on.
If you feel it’s too low or not enough, you can simply decline. You have every right to do so.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s directly proportional. No matter how gentlemanly and kind a papa (a male supporter) is, offering too little allowance can still hurt a woman. That’s why I make sure to offer a generous allowance.
For me, anything under 10 per pay-per-meeting arrangement is out of the question. I want women to feel confident, and when their self-esteem improves, they tend to look even more beautiful—so it’s a win-win.
Edit:
Yurine’s answer resonated with me the most.
Other
Wouldn’t it help at least a little to firmly promise yourself that you won’t accept such a low allowance again?
Even if you make mistakes at first, you can always start over.