Here’s your homework for this week.
Watch the four-panel comics about nightlife work posted on Diana’s Twitter account (012_diana_) and learn what women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) really think and feel.
Your deadline is March 20.
If you watch these, you should be able to have a mutually enjoyable relationship—both mentally and physically—without making the woman you approached feel uncomfortable.
Why can you older guys fall genuinely in love with women who are 10, 20, or even 30 years younger than you???
And they’re women from a dating club, too. I mean, aren’t you married?
What they need from you isn’t your heavy-handed wishes and desires or your attempts to impose your ideal image on them. It’s cash.
Why can’t you understand that they’ll only open their hearts and start seeing you as a person after you’ve built a relationship where they feel safe and can reliably receive an allowance from you?
You do realize that in an ordinary pay-per-meeting arrangement—50,000 yen each time—where you block her on LINE as soon as you get bored, the odds of the girl falling genuinely in love with you are 0%, right?
So I came up with a magic phrase to raise those odds from 0% to 50%. What do you think?
“Here’s one year’s worth of allowance—at least 10 million yen. I’ll give it to you up front.
I’ll also give you a Centurion family card.
If you ever stop wanting to see me, you can end things, so don’t force yourself.
I hope we can keep enjoying our time together every month, within what’s comfortable for you. If you ever come up short financially, just let me know anytime.”
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Older guys who don’t have the financial means to say something like this, please conduct yourselves humbly and don’t trouble women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with genuine romantic feelings or thoughtless behavior.
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To the person who asked:
People pay for value.
The more satisfied paying customers are, the more popular and supported you become.
You can attract people by offering rock-bottom prices, build a brand and charge a premium, or provide quality and satisfaction that match the price.
“My service is garbage, but pay me a lot of money anyway”—
That’s basically the logic of the yakuza, isn’t it?
Women who don’t understand something that basic won’t have good experiences even doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I think they’d be better off quitting.
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Isn’t directing people to other sites against the rules?
I think you should read more as well. You’ll understand it better if you read Ryo Tachibana’s *The Capital Theory of Happiness*.
Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is essentially a combination of romance, sex, and politics—but the “politics” is what people find annoying. Here, “politics” means resolving everything through discussion rather than money.
So papa-katsu is about replacing that negotiation with money and pursuing a relationship. At that point, it’s no different from the Chinese women who make inexpensive appliances for the Japanese market—it’s just a matter of whether the product is home appliances or romance.
The PJ’s understanding is fundamentally mistaken from the moment she sees herself as receiving a service, even though she is supposed to be the one providing it.
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Let’s all live however we like, each in our own way, without unnecessary stress.
After all, only a tiny fraction of people do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and an even tinier number join an agency or club.
For better or worse…
In a way, we’re honest and genuine—but also a little abnormal.
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For a questioner as beautiful as Yui Aragaki—or even more so, like you—I’d of course give you ¥20 million upfront.
If the older guy smells bad, you can just bail after that one meeting—no problem. And of course, a 30-minute dinner-only meeting is perfectly fine.
As for that whatever-it’s-called card, feel free to use it as much as you like until I die.
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I saw it.
I don’t have any particular thoughts.
I’m not looking for true love, so I’ll continue going about things humbly.
By the way, while there aren’t many people who can offer the kind of terms the questioner seems to be magically looking for, there are people whose arrangements are close to what you’d find in the real world.
They’re essentially mistresses, so setting that aside for the moment, they’re very considerate, humble, and wonderful people.
I don’t think you’re necessarily asking for that much, but this is also a world where many people expect equal consideration from each other. Rather than clinging to fantasies, I think it’s perfectly fine to simply say, “If our terms don’t match, we won’t pursue a relationship.”
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Is this an ad for Diana on Twitter?
I checked it out, and all I could think was that it might be the source of some of the questions that occasionally pop up here.
The Centurion Card seems to be trending lately.
Has it evolved from “Give me an allowance” to “Give me a card I can use however I want”…?
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No way.
I mean, nice fantasy.
Update:
I braced myself and cautiously went to check out the manga, expecting something like what was described in the question, but it was completely ordinary. I think the person who asked the question should read it and learn a bit about reality, lol.
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