The creepy older men on here basically all offer an allowance of 50,000 yen, don’t they? Have they formed some kind of creepy old-men alliance?
This content is machine-translated.
After meeting a few of them, I realized they’re absolute bottom-feeders who target beginners unfamiliar with the going rate.
I have nothing but regrets. I want my time and all the emotional distress back.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂Teens👑Universe female member
If the questioner doesn’t like the papa offering 50, they can simply turn him down, right?
It’s true that some papas offer even less, while, though rare, you occasionally come across a very generous (well-paying) papa.
That’s just how it is.
Fuu’s columns are arranged chronologically, so take a look if you have time.
Before finding a good woman for a monthly arrangement, you make lots of offers, sometimes get stood up at the last minute, and meet all kinds of people before finally meeting someone you’re satisfied with—often after seeing dozens of women.
Sometimes you get lucky and meet a great person right away; other times, like Fuu, it takes a while.
Sometimes you quickly meet a papa with dream-level allowance and great terms. Sometimes you only find one after receiving lots of offers, and sometimes you never do. That’s just how it is.
But I think only people who prepare themselves to seize opportunities can actually seize them. When the chance to meet a highly generous papa comes along, the people who are prepared to make the most of it—and who work on themselves so papas will like them—are the ones who get the opportunity.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
That’s what I told you!
If you keep the arrangement going, you don’t have to accept any new offers at all. You only have to deal with one creepy old man—you won’t have to meet creepy old men over and over again.
Let’s make this relationship enjoyable and mutually beneficial.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
You can’t turn back time.
Do you really want the pain to come back?
If you think an allowance of 50,000 yen is stingy, I’m sure you must be worth more than that.
I get along just fine with women who are happy with an allowance of 50,000 yen, so I’m not particularly interested in you.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’ve said before that if the allowance is lower than what you’re looking for, you should turn it down. I’m pretty sure I’ve mentioned it several times.
During the interview, I believe I also explain that it’s a relationship based on free choice, so the two of you should discuss and decide on the allowance yourselves.
And yet, if you ignore that and then write that you regret it, I can’t help thinking, “Well, of course you regret it if you don’t listen to what people tell you.”
And if this is actually a man pretending to be a woman and asking random questions, then I’ve been spending my time answering a meaningless question.
In that case, I’d like my time and frustration back too.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I don’t think anything like that exists.
It may not be that you’re dissatisfied with the allowance of 50,000 yen, but rather that you didn’t like the date itself or the person you met.
There aren’t any clearly established rules, but I think it’s a reality that 50,000 yen is roughly the going rate—or median. I also use that as a reference and set mine slightly higher for personal reasons.
It sounds like you had a difficult experience, but if you want to learn from it, negotiating for a higher allowance is one option. More importantly, I think it’s best not to enter into an arrangement with someone you’re uncomfortable with.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I don’t think there’s any “¥50,000 allowance alliance.”
Universe Club has as many as 4,000 male members.
Dating clubs aren’t places for childish people who blame everything on others.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
