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Feb 28, 2022 19:20
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He’s been bragging about it to me too.
I want to understand the mindset of people who brag like that. Why go out of his way to tell a woman like me?????
Is he trying to intimidate me from a superior position, like, “I’m doing you a favor by sleeping with someone who isn’t beautiful”?
Does he mean, “You’re not attractive, so put up with a low allowance”? (An allowance of 50,000 yen or less)
Or is he saying, “I’m such a big deal that I can even sleep with beautiful women”?
Is he bragging about having done it all, saying he’s grown tired of beautiful women and is now entertaining someone like me, an ugly woman?
Whatever the reason, it leaves a bad impression. I want to understand his mindset.
All I can think is that he’s a sleazy old man who sleeps around, has an STI, and spends his money in a vulgar way.
Though I guess none of the people who gather here spend money elegantly anyway, lol.
Mr. Mack, if you’ve slept with Russian women, can you understand his mindset?
By the way, is penile cancer a thing?
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I think it’s basically a way of bragging that they’ve slept with a woman whose attributes many men would generally envy. You could swap in anything: “I hooked up with a flight attendant,” “a gravure model,” “an idol,” and so on. I find it pretty vulgar.
Every now and then, women brag too, saying things like, “I hooked up with this hot host the other day,” or “with this gorgeous foreign guy,” but regardless of gender, I don’t think I could get close to someone who brags like that.
I mean, I’m not interested in who you’ve slept with in the first place.
So I understand why you’re frustrated, but your wording is a little too harsh.
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The psychology behind those bragging papas is basically the same as the psychology of anonymously criticizing them, like you’re doing: “I want attention and validation.”
The papa wants people to tell him he’s impressive and brag about it, while you want others to agree with you and say, “Exactly.”
They’re both pretty silly, so ideally, I’d just let it go in one ear and out the other(笑).
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Was that supposed to be a boast?
It’s such a minor thing that I don’t think it even qualifies as bragging. That’s probably why Mac said, “You wanted to tell someone about it, didn’t you?”
I just thought he was a rather pitiful person who had little else to talk about when communicating with others.
Penile cancer and testicular cancer exist as well. Men are also eligible for the cervical cancer vaccine.
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I think that man was probably just trying to brag, like, “I had sex with a Russian woman—pretty impressive, right?”
But I did wonder whether telling a woman that he’d slept with a Russian woman might make her uncomfortable.
What about cancer of the penis again? Prostate cancer seems to be fairly common, though.
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It’s pretty clear that the person asking this question is ugly on the inside.