Tips Feb 27, 2022 17:38

I've been having more intimate encounters with the person I'm seeing in unconventional places, like mixed-gender hot springs and building rooftops. Lately, though, I'm worried that they don't seem very excited about being intimate in bed. When we're outdoors, they climax quickly, but in bed they take breaks and seem to take longer to climax. What do you think I could do to get them more excited in bed too?

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I think they may have exhibitionist tendencies or something similar, so it might be difficult to get them aroused in bed. It seems best to accommodate their particular preferences.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m guessing you’re someone who enjoys intimacy together, rather than a woman who wants to rush things to get better value for money. I’ve also enjoyed similar experiences with a male partner. That said, I don’t think men necessarily want things to end quickly. When you’re in an unusual setting and he sees you feeling shy, he’s probably enjoying it and getting excited too. Even in bed, I imagine he gets more excited than usual when he sees a side of you that’s different from your normal self. That said, if you’re only pretending, it can be a real turnoff. It’s probably best to let him take the lead.
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Everyone has different preferences, so it’s hard to say. If you can figure out what turns that man on in bed, you may be able to arouse him.
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