I’m a female member of a dating salon.
There’s a man who says, “Keep your mouth closed,” when he kisses me, and then covers my lips with his and kisses me like that.
The area around my mouth gets completely covered in saliva, and the smell doesn’t go away.
Honestly, it’s even harder to endure than deep kissing, which I can at least get through by holding my breath.
With this man, we have an adult relationship (intimate) and then go out to eat, so it’s difficult because I can’t wash my entire mouth in the shower afterward—the makeup would come off.
Why does he kiss like that?? Could it be because my breath smells so bad that he doesn’t want to put his tongue in? I’m worried about that now. Though honestly, I’m thinking, “Old man, your breath smells way worse,” lol.
The allowance is 10, but I don’t think it’s worth it.
How can I get him to stop?
Also, the salon says that being a gentleman is part of the screening criteria for its male members, but that’s definitely not true, right??
A lot of them are just people who graduated from Universe Club, after all. And with membership requirements of an annual income of 40 million yen or assets of 80 million yen, even a retired salaryman who can’t really work anymore could meet the criteria, so I don’t think anyone should expect too much.
Since the annual membership fee became 1.2 million yen, I get the impression that at least some of the mediocre small-time rich guys have been weeded out.
I’ve been a member since the days when they charged monthly fees, but the low-paying papas (male supporters) I was seeing said they quit after the fee was changed to 1.2 million yen or more per year.
Those mediocre older guys all say in unison, “It’s ridiculous to pay 1.2 million yen upfront—it’s a huge amount of money.” But the fact that they call 1.2 million yen a huge amount just proves how mediocre they are. I think members like that deserve to be weeded out.
Besides, 1.2 million yen is only the minimum fee; there are also plans costing 6 million yen. If they weren’t even told about those plans, doesn’t that mean the salon didn’t consider them members worth keeping anyway??
Whenever I tell someone who seems like a small-time, small-fry rich old man, “There’s also a 6-million-yen plan,” they all say, “Huh? No one told me about that,” lol.
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> The allowance is 10, but I don’t think it’s worth it.
> How can I get him to stop?
I think you should be the one to quit—both the relationship and SALON.
I don’t understand why you’re still a member while constantly putting the place down. If you think somewhere else is better, you should go there.
You mentioned the ¥6 million plan, but I think that person is only paying because they like SALON and want to support it. If anything, you should be the one paying SALON ¥6 million.
There’s nothing wrong with a woman paying, either. But if you’re calling other people “small-time,” why aren’t you putting up any money yourself?
Maybe you think it doesn’t concern you because you’re a woman, but if it’s that easy, show us proof of an annual income of at least ¥40 million.
That’s where the conversation should start.
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The poster disguises their criticism of the person giving them money as a “Why?” question.
Their true intentions are pretty obvious.
If you don’t like it, just say so.
You’re a high-pride salon woman, after all.
Akari
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Thank you for your question.
The reason your previous question was hidden is that it “wasn’t actually a question.”
This post may also be removed for the same reason.
It wasn’t deleted because the content was unfavorable to SALON.
Please make sure to write your post in question format.
Simply including a question mark somewhere isn’t enough. Posts are accepted when the overall purpose is to ask a question, with the situation explained as context for that question.
As long as you aren’t naming and criticizing a specific individual, you’re free to share your opinions about the Universe or SALON establishments.
As for answering your question:
“The allowance is 10, but I don’t think it’s worth it.
How can I get him to stop?”
→ How about giving him the same kind of kiss after licking a man’s backside?
I’m sure you’ll discover a whole new world.
“So the fact that I wasn’t even told about it means I was a member the establishment didn’t want, right?”
→ There was only one spot available for the 6-million-yen membership, and it filled up very early, so I imagine they hardly approached anyone about it.
THE SALON’s screening process is extremely strict, and I’m sure someone like you would have been rejected regardless of your looks. I regret that we should have made the screening process even stricter.
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Everyone’s being pretty harsh.
They could’ve called out the questioner for their foul mouth first, then pointed out in the second half that the old guy doing Magikarp kisses was in the wrong too...
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Rin is absolutely right.
Even as a woman, I find this question disappointing—it makes you wonder whether the women at the club are really like this on the inside, no matter how beautiful they look.
Those little details in someone’s behavior and the way they speak are what shape the club’s reputation. It wouldn’t be surprising if genuinely wealthy gentlemen decided not to register because they didn’t want to deal with women like this.
At the very least, if I were a wealthy gentleman considering joining the club, I’d think twice.
As for men’s income, mocking them might be somewhat understandable if you were earning more through means other than papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—though normally, you shouldn’t mock people in the first place. If that’s not the case, you should really watch what you say.
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So persistent…
If you feel that way and don’t like it, then leave the club.
You could either join another dating club where you think there are more gentlemen, or find a papa on your own.
We already understand that you happened to encounter someone who gives creepy kisses. Say goodbye and find someone new.
There are bound to be some gross papas, some cheap papas, and on the women’s side, some persistent, short-tempered, money-hungry people who constantly complain.
There’s no way everyone is going to be a perfect gentleman or lady. Both men and women need to stop dreaming and stay calm. If someone makes you uncomfortable or just isn’t a good match, say goodbye.
But is there really another club that’s better than this one?
If there were, it would probably become Japan’s number-one dating club.
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> Why would he kiss someone like that??
I think he sees you—someone who uses the word “meshi” instead of “dinner”—as nothing more than a fleshlight.
Since he doesn’t view you as a dating partner but as a sex toy, he probably feels he can use you however he wants without any issue.
> How can I get him to stop?
I think you should become someone who can be treated as a dating partner rather than a fleshlight.
> Also, the salon says its male members are screened for gentlemanly behavior, but that’s clearly not true, right??
Considering how politely he treats you for someone he regards as a fleshlight, I’d say he is a gentleman.
> Since they didn’t offer me information about that, does that mean I was a member the club didn’t want anymore??
They probably wouldn’t recommend a more expensive system to someone who had requested to leave after the club switched to an annual membership fee.
By your logic, since you’ve been matched with and are dating a member on the ¥1.2 million plan, you’re also just a nobody the club doesn’t need.（笑）
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First off, why someone kisses that way probably just comes down to personal preference.
If you want him to stop kissing you like that, tell him, “I prefer deep kissing, so please do that,” and work on your technique until you can avoid having to endure kisses you dislike.
As for whether someone is a gentleman, it depends on what you consider “gentlemanly,” doesn’t it?
There are only 50 men registered, so I imagine there are more gentlemen than at places where anyone can sign up. That’s just speculation, though, since I don’t know any others.
I don’t think there’s such a thing as an unnecessary member. After all, we receive allowances from these members, so we can’t really say that.
I’m not sure whether you dislike SALON itself or what the issue is, but if you really hate it that much, why not register somewhere else?
It’s sad that someone like that gets a setting while people who genuinely want to try their best don’t get any.
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